[AvasMommie2011]

Heyy .. Im taking a trip this summer to where I lived for almost 10 years, two years ago.Ill be staying with one of my guy friends, but the thing is, about a year and a half ago, I stayed with him, and we did have intercourse more than I can remember LolLL, but never got pregnant because a few days after I got there I started my period. But now that Im staying with him again this summer for 2 weeks, Ill be there while Im ovulating, and I told him this. But the thing is thou is I really do want to get pregnant again ( I have a 8 month old daughter ) but afraid because he lives in southern ontario and I live in northern ontario and he says hell be there if I do get pregnant, but how do I know that and how is he really going to be there for me when we dont even live in the same town let alone the same part of ontario, and at this point he said he doesnt want to relocate and I cant as my
daughters father is involved in her life and I could never take her away from him as hes an AMAZING father and plus shes already daddys little girl. I really do want to get pregnant because I do want more children and am afraid if I dont get pregnant now, than Ill never get the chance to get pregnant again . I know age dont matter but when you do get older, it does get harder to get pregnant, carry your child, etc, that being Im 27 and had a M/C in December . Now my question is, to figure out, if i REALLY do want to get pregnant by him and to know hell be there for me threw the pregnancy, the birth, once the child is born, etc, what kind of questions should I ask him?

BTW, He also has a daughter and I know hell be there if I did get pregnant as he truelly is a good guy, but what if my instincts are wrong, thats why I need to ask him questions to figure this out as I dont know any other way, but if you ladies, have another way, please do let me know.

A few questions that I have already thought about are:: IF I DO GET PREGNANT ::

- How do I know youll be there for me?
- How would you show and or prove it to me that youll be there?
- Could and or would you ever relocate?
- Would you come to some of my ultrasounds ( This being a yes or no question, if he says NO
this is my answer as to wanting to get pregnant by him and my answer would be CONDOM IT UP )
- Would you be able to come see me? ( Again yes or no question, if he says NO, COMDOM IT UP)

Thats all the questions I could think of at this point, please do help with more questions, as I NEED MORE QUESTIONS, LOTS AND LOTS OF QUESTIONS!!

Thank You so very much ladies and I do apologize for the short story!!

[dragonfly]

Honestly I would wait until you find that special someone who can be there in your life and be completely devoted to not only your child but YOU as well. It's hard for kids to have parents that aren't together, and I've seen a lot of families torn a part that way.
27 isn't too old, you still have plenty of time to have more children. Personally I would wait, but that's just me. If you're comfortable having a baby with a man that you're not with then that's your call. I just know I wouldn't be able to do it.
Sorry I don't mean to sound harsh or anything. I hope you are able to figure out what you want to do and good luck! Let us know how things go.

[Papasgirl]

I agree here and 27 is not at all old to have children. I am 40 now. I had my first at age 29 (?well i turned tat a week later), then next at 30, another at 32, another at 34, another at 38, last one at 39 and just lost one in march but hope to have one last one and if I do I will be 41 at delivery! You have time.... Take it to find mr. Right!