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I need something to occupy my brain it's not that I have the fever so bad I'm obsessing it's just that, I don't want to START it gets ugly when I do...i literally shut down and I don't want that to happen especially since this is supposed to be fun.
I find the justmommies boards keep me pretty occupied You could maybe join the Moms of Infants or Moms of Toddlers. Really there are so many to choose from lol. Do you read much? I find sometimes getting into a really good book or series gets my mind off things. Either that or I write my blogs which tends to keep me busy My best advice would be to find an obsession to prevent obessing over something else haha.
I know exactly what you mean about the fever though. I think that's the biggest thing that I'm scared of when we start TTC again. I remember after a while I would just start bawling every time AF showed up and I don't want to be that way again.
I wish you luck and I hope this helped
Oh man do I unfortunately know obsessing. It's funny bc ntnp
Is supposed to be a kind of mysterious and fun way of letting life play out but for so many we kind of are secretly sucked into the suspense and it becomes TTC! My advice is actually to not feed the obsession with things that will reinforce bc I know from experience that this only exasperates it. Before u know it it will be your every thought. Easier said than done. Reading is great or any hobby or interest. Even keep itself occupied with relaxing TLC stuff during down time. I know a month can seem like an eternity when in ur heart every cycle means a possible new baby. We are all here to help and share the anticipation! Xoxo. My dh does not want anymore kids as we have 4. Two are my step and two are my birth. It kills me bc I don't think I'll ever get that preg joy again.
aww...I feel like I'm getting sucked in already. It's like my husband is cool NTNP but secretly I'M TTCing lol. It's like "Hun, you have no idea that I'm watching EVERY moment of my cycle and charting and all that good stuff." lol. =( I need to calm down.