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May 22nd, 2012, 08:27 AM
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I need something to occupy my brain it's not that I have the fever so bad I'm obsessing it's just that, I don't want to START it gets ugly when I do...i literally shut down and I don't want that to happen especially since this is supposed to be fun.
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May 22nd, 2012, 09:11 AM
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I find the justmommies boards keep me pretty occupied You could maybe join the Moms of Infants or Moms of Toddlers. Really there are so many to choose from lol. Do you read much? I find sometimes getting into a really good book or series gets my mind off things. Either that or I write my blogs which tends to keep me busy My best advice would be to find an obsession to prevent obessing over something else haha.
I know exactly what you mean about the fever though. I think that's the biggest thing that I'm scared of when we start TTC again. I remember after a while I would just start bawling every time AF showed up and I don't want to be that way again.
I wish you luck and I hope this helped
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May 28th, 2012, 12:55 PM
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Yea, I dont want to get to the bawling point or getting so UPSET at the fact that AF showed up. lol. It's like I can rationalize in my head, but my body is out of control with emotions. =/

I think I'm going to pick up a book. I like to read, just have to find something interesting to read.
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May 28th, 2012, 06:56 PM
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Oh man do I unfortunately know obsessing. It's funny bc ntnp
Is supposed to be a kind of mysterious and fun way of letting life play out but for so many we kind of are secretly sucked into the suspense and it becomes TTC! My advice is actually to not feed the obsession with things that will reinforce bc I know from experience that this only exasperates it. Before u know it it will be your every thought. Easier said than done. Reading is great or any hobby or interest. Even keep itself occupied with relaxing TLC stuff during down time. I know a month can seem like an eternity when in ur heart every cycle means a possible new baby. We are all here to help and share the anticipation! Xoxo. My dh does not want anymore kids as we have 4. Two are my step and two are my birth. It kills me bc I don't think I'll ever get that preg joy again.
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June 1st, 2012, 09:14 AM
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aww...I feel like I'm getting sucked in already. It's like my husband is cool NTNP but secretly I'M TTCing lol. It's like "Hun, you have no idea that I'm watching EVERY moment of my cycle and charting and all that good stuff." lol. =( I need to calm down.
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June 6th, 2012, 09:31 AM
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I'm right there with you he has no idea. I'm addicted and I need to chill out! I think I might take up sewing and make a dog bed for my Lucy...
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June 6th, 2012, 03:53 PM
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It's just hard... I joined the ttc board again because it's so slow in here.
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June 7th, 2012, 09:05 AM
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I'm thinking of doing the same. I always check this board but there is never much action.
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June 7th, 2012, 06:27 PM
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No its not....I made a post over there earlier. I think because nobody is actively trying its not much to talk about. the ladies over there always have fun things going on. I love it over there.
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