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December 18th, 2008, 09:40 PM
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Well, I finally decided to take a pregnancy test this evening (just to ease my mind that I am stressed) and guess what I got...........



Now I am just going through a breakdown. DH thinks it is in our best interest to terminate... because a third child would "throw things off" and so on.... and of course my Mother said she would vote to terminate as well, but it's my choice in the end......

Secretly I am excited inside... but on the outside share the same worry/concern they do... and I don't believe in termination.... I just don't know what to do anymore....
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December 18th, 2008, 09:45 PM
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aww well sweetie congrats, and its your choice and maybe dh will come around soon and change his mind. you need to do whats best for you and your family. and i dont believe in that either and i would never do that. and maybe you need to sit down and talk with both of them about your feelings... good luck and congrats again
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December 19th, 2008, 06:46 AM
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Congrats!!!

I know you will make the best decision for your child.
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December 19th, 2008, 07:59 AM
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First off Congrats.

I know you will make the right decision for you and your family and your child.

Jus tsit down and talk to them and tell them your feelings.
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December 19th, 2008, 08:19 AM
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Congrats. I know I could never terminate. In the end, I know you'll make the best decision for your family but I really hope that it's not terminating the pregnancy.

What about adoption? There are tons of families out there that would love give your baby a great life and what a wonderful gift to give a family.
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December 19th, 2008, 04:56 PM
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December 20th, 2008, 07:44 PM
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December 21st, 2008, 08:36 AM
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I agree, follow your heart... Big hugs to you, I wish your family the best!
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December 21st, 2008, 10:08 AM
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December 21st, 2008, 10:55 AM
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December 21st, 2008, 02:48 PM
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Congrats! I wouldn't terminate just because they want you to but you don't.
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December 22nd, 2008, 07:32 AM
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I'll pray for you to make the best decision for yourself and your family.
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