Forum: Children with Developmental Delays and Disorders
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So Ty had another one of his fits. I ended up with a red mark on my chest, Eli ended up with a scratch to his leg where Ty through a chair at him, Trent got hit in the arm with Ty's radio and are TV lost the battle completely! I called to get him into a mental hospital for some help with all these fits of hitting, throwing things, kicking, swearing, and saying he is going to cut off legs and heads off of him and his brothers and they won't take him because he is special needs and has a heart defect and they don't want to take any chances. *** am I supposed to do? I can't handle his behavior any more. I feel like I failed him and I am wishing more and more that I would have gotten an abortion like the sperm donor and Chad both said. I am just at my wits end and don't know what to do. UGH this is so frustrating! I ask God all the time why this is happening and why he gave me a child with these issues, but I haven't heard a response as of yet! It's also not easy hearing Ty say he hates me over and over again for nearly a year now. His fits are more frequent and I am having a hard time dealing with them. Oh he also says he hates it here and wants to go to jail. We give him everything he needs and wants except the Ipad as he needs to potty train first. So he never goes without anything. Sorry for the rant!
Simone SAHM to 5 boys Trenton 23, Tyler 20, twins Peyton and Eli 11, & Lennox 7 and 5 s (1992, 2008, 2011, 2013, & 2015)
(((hugs))) The only advice I have for you is the next time it happens take him to the emergency room. I know it sounds odd but they will admit him into the psych ward and then he will get the help he needs. I have friends who have children who have violent fits and couldn't find help anywhere and that is what they finally ended up doing. Hope this helps. Feel free to come on here any time and vent away.