I don't read those things, but yes it's terrible how our society treats celebrities most of the time... as if they're personal property or something. Who really cares about what people eat while pregnant or whatever? I've never idolized actors or celebrities... just not my thing... I appreciate their acting and like watching certain shows and movies, but their personal life is way beyond my sphere of caring.
On the other hand, people ought to know what they're signing up for when they go in for a career like that. I think it's messed up and it shouldn't be like this, but it is. And it's been like this for a long time. And if you're going to be an actor/actress voluntarily... well.... that's part of the package I guess. People like me definitely should never aim for a career like that! I stay way out of the spotlight if I can.