[-erin-]

Do you hold grudges? Or is it easy for you to forgive and forget?

[MrsLMB]

It really depends on the situation. I am more likely to forgive if the ill will was towards myself but if it was done towards someone I know then I will hold a grudge for much longer.

[lunarmagic]

I hold grudges a really really long time.

[-erin-]

I'm a grudge holder.

[speechteach42]

If it's something minor I usually forgive and forget but major wrongs I definitely hold I grudge for awhile! Eventually I can forgive but I definitely don't forget.

[aussie_mama22]

I tend to be a grudge holder, more so when it involves someone I love.

[momoftwins]

I rarely hold a grudge. It takes something pretty serious to cause me to do that. The older I get, the more I find myself trying to give people the benefit of the doubt. If I'm mad enough to hold a grudge, I ask myself if it's a grudge-worthy thing. Usually the answer is no and I slap myself out of it.