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I think I've posted in here once or twice before. DS is going to be 2 tomorrow and when he was 1, I started him sitting on the potty regularly and we did well with it for about 4 months or so... we went on vaca to FL and didn't do anything with it and just never got back into things... Plus, he poo'd on the potty and totally freaked and was scared to even go near it.
Since he's turning 2 and we now have another on the way, I thought I'd try the potty again. However, he has absolutely NO interest whatsoever! I ask if he wants to sit on the potty and he says no and runs away. I tell him it's time to sit on the potty and he cries so hard, especially if you pick him up and just sit him on it. I don't know if he's still scared (from teh poo thing) or maybe he's still too young...
He doesn't tell me when he's peed or poo'd, but if I'm changing him then he'll tell me either "I peed" or "I pooped". We just started back using cloth (thought maybe the feeling the wetness may want him to train). The only time he'll actually tell me that he's wet is if he soaks through during the night (we use sposies at night)...
I'm just wondering if I should wait awhile again or if I should really try to p ush it; I don't want to traumatize him, though so that he REALLY doesn't want to use the potty. He LOVES stickers, so I thought that might be an incentive/reward, but I just don't know. thoughts? Suggestions? Advice? Thanks so much Mama's!
I could have written your exact post! One of my girls did the same thing in August (she was just over 2 years old then), and she would not sit on the potty again until November!! I didn't push her at all, but one day she decided on her own to sit on it! She seemed excited about all of the attention she got, so I decided to go full force with the potty training. She is doing great with #1, but #2 she either asks for a pull-up or goes in her panties. She has "accidentally" pooped on the potty a couple of times, and it terrifies her still. And at times, she doesn't want to even pee on it b/c I think she's afraid that poop will come out. Sigh...
In summary, I would wait. Wait until he's showing more interest. I've done a lot of reading and internet searching and that seems to be the consensus among parents. I'm not pushing my DD to go #2 b/c they can become constipated and that, to me, would be more stressful.
I read the book: Potty Train Your Child in Just One Day: Proven Secrets of the Potty Pro. While it didn't really take one day, it did help tremendously. There are some great tips and checklists in the book, but it really does not address many problems (like fear of pooping).