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I am kinda stressing out, I'm hoping someone can help with their input!
My last period was on September 28th. I had/have been seeing one guy for the past couple of months and we definitely were not being safe. All over October, we were having unprotected sex. My periods are anywhere from 25-35 days so fairly regular I guess. My last cycle before September 28th was 25 days. I remember specifically the morning of October 17th where he came inside of me (and had been doing for the past 2 weeks before) We had a falling out after that.
On the 20th of October I was getting lower back pains as if my period was coming but nothing. On the 22nd, I woke up sick to my stomach, throwing up all day and sleeping on and off all day. I took a HPT because I thought it was weird that this came out of nowhere and it was a negative.
On the 24th, I met another guy and we ended up getting really drunk and making out with a lot of heavy petting. He literally put it inside for 2 seconds and then we just continued making out. Both of us didn't want to have sex, it was just a stupid drunk thing. He didn't finish either.
My period never came that week but I had cramps like it was. so on the morning of the 29th, I took another HPT and it was a BFP.
I scheduled a dr. appt. that week (the 2nd of November) and because 3 years prior I had an ectopic, they decided to do an early U/S to make sure everything is ok this time. We scheduled that for the 9th of November. The nurse estimated me at that point to be around 5 weeks pregnant.
I went for the U/S on the 9th and all they could find was the yolk sac, the technician said I was about 5 weeks 2 days pregnant.
Well... my question is, do you think it's possible that the 2nd guy that put it in for 2 seconds could be the father? I would be so devastated. He is such a douche and it was a huge mistake. I am still with the 1st guy and I really believe he is the father but I need to make sure.
I mean, would I have gotten a BFP 5 days after sleeping with that 2nd guy? And how likely is it.. especially since the 1st guy actually did 'go' inside me and the other didn't...
Ahhhh I'm so confused... Someone please help me out here!!! Thanks so much!
It's more likely the first guy because you ended up with the 2nd guy and 5 days later you ended up with a bfp right ? It usually takes around 10-14 days for conception along with implantation and only after implantation there is usually enough hcg levels to be detected on the hpt to become a bfp
I'm going through this right now but my dates are much closer. Only one ma ejaculate in me though. I believe it is the first man. If the said you were five weeks that clearly would make you about three weeks (gestational). Good luck I pray it the first guy!!