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So i'm 30 weeks pregnant and i'm very concerned about giving birth to my first child, that being said my husband is in Afghanistan and has been since i found out i was 8 weeks pregnant.
Will not having any type of sex my whole pregnancy give me a difficult labor? I ask this because me and my husband are used to not seeing each other when we train for months at a time and everytime we do have sex after those months it hurts and takes some getting used to again.....so my worry is, is not having any sex gonna lead to a VERY painful labor???
Not having sex won't increase the pain factor. You can do kegal exercises and start drinking Red Raspberry LEAF tea to help tone things up though. Just make sure you research these things ahead of time to make sure they're right for you.
You might also want to look into birthing techniques. Will you give birth in hospital or with a midwife in a birthing centre? Will you want medication? Go natural?
I'm sorry you have had to go through much of your pregnancy without your hubby around. *hugs*