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January 6th, 2012, 06:24 PM
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I finally had enough and moved out of the ILs this week. MIL and I got into it pretty good, and I just had enough. Harleigh and I are at my parent's house right now. I am in the process of finding another job, which I need a new one anyways. DH is still living at his parent's house. And to be entirely honest IDK If he is coming here. Some things he says makes me think he will and then I just don't anymore. At this point I am just thinking of Harleigh and I and Jellybean. If he wants to come be here, he will. But I just wanted to let you all know I finally grew a pair! And I am never going back 
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Amelia: Wife to Ryan, Mama to Harleigh, with a boy on the way
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January 7th, 2012, 04:13 AM
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Love my house of boys!
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Aww yay! That's awesome! I hope dh comes to his senses and leaves too!
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January 7th, 2012, 05:35 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh wow, well I hope you are at peace with the decision, and i hope you and Ryan can work it out because you were not really you when you were so unhappy, kwim, and Ryan said those things to THAT Amee, and not the real Amee who you can be when you are living in a place you are comfortable.
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January 7th, 2012, 07:30 AM
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I am at peace with the decision. It's something that needed to be done a long time ago. Harleigh is adjusting well and she has been eating well too! I just hate that I drop HJ off to him in the morning. Driving to that house makes my anxiety so bad. Hopefully one day I won't have to do that drive. Right now I am not pushing Ryan into coming here. He will wise up soon enough... I hope. And if he doesn't there isn't much I can do about it. But I agree he needs to get his head out of his moms bum!! Emotionally I feel so much better being out of that house. I'm still stressed but not like I was. And thank you all for putting up with me when I was a little off my rocker.
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Amelia: Wife to Ryan, Mama to Harleigh, with a boy on the way
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January 7th, 2012, 06:22 PM
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I remember hearing about your stress in that home, I am glad you made a change! Hope that DH wises up soon as well.
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January 7th, 2012, 11:48 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm glad to hear this. Don't worry about him, he's not your problem. The kids are now. Good luck!
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January 8th, 2012, 03:39 AM
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good for you! seems to me you did what had to be done! I wish you lots of luck!
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January 9th, 2012, 12:16 AM
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Mom to twins + 1
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Hooray for you! I'm sorry that your IL's were making life so rough, but I'm happy that you got away with your sanity and are at peace! Hugs!
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Me: Lisa, Mommy to twins +1
8/5/08 Beautiful twin girls Leigh and Lucy born after 4-year struggle with RPL & 6 losses
12/10/09 Surprise! Baby #3 is on the way, EDD 6/22/10
12/29/09 2nd ultrasound - joining team blue
6/16/10 Baby Ben is born!
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January 9th, 2012, 06:21 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Glad you got out. I know your MIL was making you miserable there and I hope that you and Ryan can work things out too.
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January 9th, 2012, 07:50 AM
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Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Good for you and good luck! I hope you are much happier now. Being stressed all the time is not good for you or the babe and the bean.
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January 9th, 2012, 03:31 PM
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We should have a good vent about in-laws you and I...mine are driving me nuts right now!
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January 9th, 2012, 07:38 PM
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my babies complete me ♥
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That's great news Amee!
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January 9th, 2012, 08:48 PM
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Good for you!!! I'm glad that you got out of there and are just worrying about yourself and the kiddos. If Ryan has any sense he will come around and get the hell out of there too. Living in a toxic situation like that isn't good for anyone, especially someone with a young child who is also expecting. I hope things are great for you from here on out.
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Kelly, you are amazing and I love you! Thank you for the awesomely cute siggy! 
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January 10th, 2012, 06:55 PM
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Thanks ladies! So far so good. Ryan spent Saturday night and Sunday here. And plans to come here Friday after work to stay the weekend. I am going to continue not to push him. I remember how awkward it was for me to move into his parents house.
Now my next quest is to grow a pair and resign from my job. I am tired of being calleda b!tch, wh%re, and everything else under the sun by my boss... I can always go back to retail!
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Amelia: Wife to Ryan, Mama to Harleigh, with a boy on the way
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January 12th, 2012, 03:52 PM
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What do you do Amee? I just can't believe bosses would call people those names. If mine called me that, I'm sure she would be in deep crud. That can be considered a hostel work environment...which can mean LAWSUIT!
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January 14th, 2012, 01:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So glad you moved out of there! I remember when i was on last time she was driving you crazy, and that was a long time ago! I hope Ryan keeps spending time over there and moves in. I can't imagine my hubby not living with me and the kids!! PS~ I didn't know you were expecting! Congrats!!
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January 16th, 2012, 07:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Lame-o Illinois
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I work in a pain clinic. Overrated. I hate my job. It is a very hostile work environment. But I am not comfortable quitting without another job lined up.
Yea its weird not seeing DH everyday, but I didn't see him much to begin with because we work separate shifts.
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Amelia: Wife to Ryan, Mama to Harleigh, with a boy on the way
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January 18th, 2012, 04:17 AM
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Latin & Greek Professor
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Denmark (born & raised in Alabama!)
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Way to go!
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