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I'm 21 and have had 4 losses. The most recent was last month on September 12th. After our loss my husband and I decided to not try but not prevent either. AF should have come today. I know AF can be a bit wacky after a loss but I hate not knowing! I'm scared to test and find out I am expecting only to be disappointed again or to find out Iím not expecting and still be disappointed because I should be expecting right now. But I am also scared to not know and just wait a few weeks before testing which is what hubby suggested. Iím torn and donít know what to do. I know itís hard to conceive this soon after a loss but a part of me has a weird feeling because AF has always been Very regular even after my past loses.
What should I do? Test or wait a few weeks and if AF still hasnít come test then?