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Hi my name is Carrie. I am mom to Lawrence who is 4 and Hope who is 2. I found out I was pregnant in September with our much wanted third baby. Things turned bad and there were medical issues and at 16 weeks I was admitted to be induced to deliver our daughter Leigha.
I was originally thinking I wanted to get pregnant right away because I wanted 3 kids. Until DH said something that stuck with me. We have 3 kids we just didnt get to keep Leigha.
He offered to get a vasectomy right away but I suggested getting Mirena again then after the 5 years getting the V if we still feel the same.
It's like a switch flipped with me and I feel done. I can't go through losing another baby again. I have 2 healthy kids etc. I feel done but for some reason the thought of selling things like our high chairs, bassinet and baby swing makes me sad which seems silly because they are all previously loved and easily replaceable.
Leigha was only born 1.5 weeks ago so I imagine most will tell me not to do anything for a few weeks