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March 20th, 2010, 05:12 AM
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Ok so my SO just left to go to a training that he needs to take for his future career but, its 2 hours away !! I am so dead worried about him bc i know its veryy far and his car is not reliable at all, its about 13 years old and he hasnt done an oil change since last July. He got alot of stuff repaired on it lately which does make me less worried but, the fact remains its still an old car and unreliable. He was debating whether he should take my car or his since mine is only 1 year old and in way better condition but, he decided to take his cause mine was out of gas :S . I am so worried something is going to happen to him on the way or on the way back. I hear soo many stories these days on the news of ppl getting into car accidents and dying and its just freaking me out. I almost cried when he left cause i just didnt want him to leave.Im trying to think of something else to get my mind off of it but i just cant.
I know that he is a very safe driver cause hes used to driving with his daughters in the car but, things can happen even if you`re a safe driver. Im more worried that something is going to happen with his car thats going to create an accident than anything else.
I just cant wait until he gets home already so i can stop worrying. In normal cases, i would have went back to sleep now since its only 8am but, i cant sleep and im not even hungry !
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March 20th, 2010, 05:20 AM
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March 20th, 2010, 06:18 AM
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I'm the same way this pregnancy. I worry like crazy about everything! It can totally mess with your hormones and this time i've got some serious pregnancy induced anxiety/paranoia
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March 20th, 2010, 09:52 AM
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I'm sorry your so worried! How long is he gone for? Those pregnancy hormones make things so much harder too! ((((((HUGS)))))))
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March 20th, 2010, 07:40 PM
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Well, 2 hours really isn't too far if God forbid his car breaks down and you need to pick him up. I wouldn't worry about an accident. I've dealt with a terrible car that nearly killed me multiple times because of how poorly it held up. He'll know as soon as there is a problem and be able to pull off the road or hit his hazards or something. Don't you worry. Besides, from my experience cars like that will tend to break down at a stop sign or a stopped traffic signal or something (they'll just fail to go when you press the gas pedal). I've never had it happen on the highway - once they're going usually they're fine, if not he'll be able to pull over immediately. Relax!!! Bad accidents usually happen because of people not paying attention, not mechanical failures.
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March 21st, 2010, 07:10 PM
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I worry about my husband like that. He is so precious to me and I need that man to live! We are super attached to each other.

I just pray and have faith that God has him at those moments. He went away for a week for his current job and man it almost killed all of us. It was bad. I thought all kinds of bad things.

Now this job has him up to 3 hours away from me everyday all day and I can't stand it. He is a good driver, but he falls asleep easily while driving and the hours of his job has him worn out! I worry so much.

HUGS, it is hard to not have him there. My hubby jokes that I can keep him alive just by sheer will power.
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