[Lisigirl13]

Ladies I am super stressed out
I was making count of the guests for melanie's party and my mom just had to ruin everything! Because she has to have the world revolve around her and It must be to her convenience or nobody else can be happy! I swear I want to blow up with frustration!

A few weeks ago my mom asked me where I was doing the party I said I did not know yet. Too soon to tell. A week ago she was like oh you can do it at ozzy's since his moms yard is really big and It's right next to the church. I Talked to his mom and we decided we are doing it there and making it look as nice as possible.

Now today She asks me where I am doing it and when I tell her she says "well I am not going and I am not inviting anyone to come"

and now all of a sudden she says she does not want to go to "that" house and that she will only go if I do it at a park or a Banquet hall!!! To send her an invitation just in case she feels like going but most likely she will go home after the baptism!

[inyourhonor]

I would tell her it's her loss if she can't act like an adult for a few hours. I hate when parents try to lay guilt trips on us.

She suggested it, she should bite her tongue for 3 hours and get over it. We had 2 joint parties for my oldest and never again. It works out better for us, our parents just don't get along. I mean, they do but the tension is so bad I can't deal with it.

I'm sure you will have a great time and Melanie will have a great birthday! She should be the only one there acting like a 1 year old anyways

[sunshyne57]

Okay first of all, it's MELANIE'S day.....not hers. She is the one that suggested having it there in the first place. Why is she being all immature about it now?

If she wants to act like that, then it's her loss and she doesn't deserve to be there. She's making it all about herself, when she should be focusing on Melanie. She is being extremely selfish.

I'm sure you guys will have a great day, and Melbug will have a WONDERFUL birthday, whether she is there or not.

[Irish_Wristwatch]

The party isnt for her, its for Melanie so if she cant get over whatever her issue is and act like an adult for a few hours then I say its her loss

[Trish36]

HER LOSS!!! She doesn't want to come to the party....oh well. Don't get too stressed out. Just send her an invitation.
Some people just think the world revolves around them. It doesn't! Just make a mention nice and sweet that she better not ruin the day for Melanie.