I'm going to shoot myself

EquestrianMama · #1 July 20th, 2011, 03:59 PM

Not truely, but you know what I mean.

I'm staying with my mom in northern VA right now until the baby and I fly to CA. I love my mom, I really do, but she's driving me absolutely bonkers. My gran is also staying with my mom because her apartment complex had bedbugs found in it, so she's moving to another place like August 5. Well, we move to a 2 br August 1.. right now there are 4 of us in a 1 br. I'm going insane. I don't get ANY alone time like I need. My mom is constantly harping on me about my parenting habits and giving Ali food that I don't want her to have. She is just ARGH.

I need to get out but I don't have a car.

Daffodil · #2 July 20th, 2011, 10:25 PM

Yikes, that sucks!!! So is your hubby already in CA? Where in Cali are you moving?

#3 July 20th, 2011, 10:31 PM

That stinks! I might have to make a trip back down there to break you out. Plus another trip to the mall wouldn't hurt. If you had your car I'd tell you to head up here. Seth will be in TX for a few days.

Anyway, goodluck...you'll be in sunny California before you know it.

Mama2Owen · #4 July 21st, 2011, 09:06 AM

Yikes! That's quite a situation to be in. Hang in there, mama, it won't be much longer!

dunerchick · #5 July 21st, 2011, 09:11 AM

Cake walk, There has been 4 of us in one bedroom at my dads house since March 10, to make it worse my dad babysits my brothers kid who is the same age as my DS and is a total pita he has no manners he physically can't keep up with DS hes mean, socially retarded and poops and pees his pants after being potty trained for almost 3 years. 40 more days till my house is done and I won't have to lay eyes on him till Christmas.

EquestrianMama · #6 August 19th, 2011, 11:53 AM

Wow I just saw this...

My mother was physically and psychologically abusive to me throughout most of my childhood. Living with her in a small apartment is not easy. Thank god I'm out of there now. I'm sorry that you can't live on your own for whatever reason, but there's no reason for you to trivialize what I was dealing with at that point. And really, socially retarded? It sounds like the kid has a true mental disorder, there's no reason for you to belittle him like that. If you don't like your living situation, get out.

Hollybear · #7 August 19th, 2011, 01:48 PM

I love my family but I think once you're an adult and have lived on your own.... being basically a "guest" in your parents house is NOT FUN---I mean I love visiting my family and my parents have a big house so I can't even begin to imagine --- my biggest complaint is that my parents have the LEAST baby friendly house in the history of houses. Sharp edges, breakables, fireplace, swimming pool....I could eat a bottle of xanax by the time I fly home.

Hang in there!!! I totally would be the same way as you but probably like 500x's more crazy

dunerchick · #8 August 19th, 2011, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by EquestrianMama

Wow I just saw this...

My mother was physically and psychologically abusive to me throughout most of my childhood. Living with her in a small apartment is not easy. Thank god I'm out of there now. I'm sorry that you can't live on your own for whatever reason, but there's no reason for you to trivialize what I was dealing with at that point. And really, socially retarded? It sounds like the kid has a true mental disorder, there's no reason for you to belittle him like that. If you don't like your living situation, get out.

Jesus Christ! You didn't mention that how the F was I supposed to know? I am getting out we are buoldin a big beautiful house and they are putting the finishing touches on now. Should close next week :-). What is the politically correct term for socially retarded?

nevergivingup · #9 August 19th, 2011, 05:42 PM

^^^ no one really cares about you and your house Dunnerchick! If all you want to do is be rude then just leave

And by the way why would you care what the politically correct term is after all you are NOT politically correct right?

#10 August 19th, 2011, 06:00 PM

.....and please let's not use the lords name in vain...politically correct or not it's offensive and tacky.

nevergivingup · #11 August 19th, 2011, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by HMC

.....and please let's not use the lords name in vain...politically correct or not it's offensive and tacky.

Exactly Heather!

Lilly Bella · #12 August 19th, 2011, 06:23 PM

double you tee efff?

EquestrianMama · #13 August 19th, 2011, 09:36 PM

Even if you didn't know, or if that wasn't the situation, it's pretty rude to trivialize what someone's going through. Would you like it if someone came along on one of your venting threads and basically told you to suck it up buttercup because they had it worse? No.. you wouldn't.

As for the politically correct way of saying socially retarded.. wow. If he is mentally impaired, you say that. A normally functioning potty trained kid doesn't go to the bathroom in their pants, so the kid obviously has some form of mental impairment. I feel bad for that kid having to be around someone who so harshly judges them. As for living with your father.. YOU made that choice, so you can't really complain now can you?

sfarrow3 · #14 August 19th, 2011, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by dunerchick

Jesus Christ! You didn't mention that how the F was I supposed to know? I am getting out we are buoldin a big beautiful house and they are putting the finishing touches on now. Should close next week :-). What is the politically correct term for socially retarded?

Poor thing...please come back to JM once you get out of that horrible situation you're in and maybe spend some one on one time with your DH because your not doing well! We'll talk back with you after this has happened. God Bless!