How often do you get time to yourself? I really try to have some every night.
Do you have a normal time during the day/night that is just for you? After J goes to bed and I straighten up the apartment and finish whatever else I have to do, prepare for work tomorrow, etc... usually around 8pm.
What do you normally do? Go on the computer, read, have a scoop or 2 of ice cream

Sometimes DF and I will watch something together but I have been too tired lately.