Usually a couple weeks before Christmas, DH and I take a day and do all our Christmas shopping and go out for a nice dinner. I grew up in a very religious Baptist family, though I don't practice anymore. For DH and I, Christmas is about family and spending time together. My DH's parents are Buddist, though MIL grew up Episcopalian and I really like the ritual of their church services so I usually go to Christmas Eve Mass with her. On Christmas morning, we go over to their house for coffee cake and coffee, and we do stockings then and sometimes a few presents while we listen to Manheim Steamroller. Then we go home to do our cooking for Christmas dinner and then in the afternoon, we go back over to their house for dinner and open the rest of the presents. Since my mom lives near us now too, she usually joins us for all the festivities at the in-laws.