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November 9th, 2008, 02:00 PM
Vicki...'s Avatar Mommy to Caleb & Ethan
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Ok, I have an issue that has been bothering me for a little over a month now, last time I went to visit my mom and dad, I overheard my dad talking to my oldest sister(diana) about my 2 month old neice Isabella(she is sister rose's daughter), and he said to her " I have not loved a child this much since you was a baby", this bothers me intensely, I am the youngest of his children, I have always known that she is the favorite, but what about me, my other sister(rose), and my son(caleb), and her son(roses son doug) do we mean nothing to him. I guess the reason I have brought this back out in my mind is because my sister Diana is trying to guilt trip me into going to thanksgiving dinner with mom and dad and everyone, and I am not sure that i will not break down crying during dinner, I cried myself to sleep last night just thinking about, and I also worry that Caleb who is scared of my dad will actually start to form a bond with him only to be hurt the way I have been, sorry to dump all of this on you ladies, but I need to know if I am just being petty.
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November 9th, 2008, 02:16 PM
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Oh hun I don't think you're being petty I'd be crushed if I heard something like that! Granted I'd also be supremely pissed off too, but still crushed nonetheless! What an awful thing to say! Don't let anyone guilt trip you into doing something you don't want to to - that's just not right. I hope things get better!
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November 9th, 2008, 02:25 PM
Vicki...'s Avatar Mommy to Caleb & Ethan
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Thanks Terri, I am honestly considering not going, I don't want to dred the holiday.
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November 9th, 2008, 03:41 PM
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Oh hun I don't think you're being petty I'd be crushed if I heard something like that! Granted I'd also be supremely pissed off too, but still crushed nonetheless! What an awful thing to say! Don't let anyone guilt trip you into doing something you don't want to to - that's just not right. I hope things get better![/b]
Terri could not have said things better! Vicki I feel so bad for you! I hope you make the choice you want and don't let people make you feel bad for not going.
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November 11th, 2008, 10:06 AM
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thats so heartbreaking. don't do anything you don't want to do. *hugs*
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