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February 13th, 2006, 05:59 PM
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Is it just me or does anyone else feel very insecure about themselves. I hate feeling this way. I feel so bad for my husband because if a skinny little girl comes on tv or one of those Victoria Secret commercials come on, i get so mad at him for even watching it. I don't know why i am being this way. I mean i was a little insecure before, but i feel like its beyond what it should be. Its gotten to the point where i don't even what to have sex with him because i feel like he wants those girls instead of me. Am i crazy?????
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February 14th, 2006, 07:19 AM
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I don't think you're crazy. Your body is full of raging pg hormones right now and your getting bigger as the baby grows! I think it's actually pretty normal to feel that way at some point during pregnancy! I know I did, and do. Just explain to dh why you're feeling that way and hopefully he will understand!!!
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February 14th, 2006, 07:21 AM
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I am not even pregnant and I feel like that often.
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February 14th, 2006, 10:18 AM
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Your not crazy.
When I was first with my husband I used to feel like that. But now I don't, and I feel silly if I feel like that. I have the greatest husband and he tells me everyday that I'm beautiful and he always tells me how much he loves me (we must sound corny, I know) We have a VERY healthy relationship, in all aspects.
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February 14th, 2006, 04:28 PM
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i feel the same way!..i try to block my bfs eyes when a girl is on tv in her bra and underwears..makes me feel uncomfortable and unwanted...i hate my body thats why i was trying to lose weight (lost 90 points) but im still overweight..and now im starting to gain some back and its killing me!
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February 14th, 2006, 05:00 PM
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Thanks ladies for making me feel better. Now i know that i am not the only one that thinks this way. Thanks again!
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February 14th, 2006, 08:41 PM
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I used to feel that way when I was in my early 20's, but now at 33 I could care less. I think in order to have a healthy relationship you need to be secure with yourself. Your partner loves you for you not for what you look like. It is human nature for us to look at other people and think "wouldn't mind a bit of that". I was watching The Pacifier last night and thought the very thing seeing Vin diesel wearing nothing but a towel...Yummy!!

It would be a very boring world if we were all a size 8!
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February 15th, 2006, 06:21 AM
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I feel very bad about my body some times. It just feels like my belly is expanding at a crazy rate - and it doesn't have bump look - it's my fat rolls getting bigger.

My husband tells me all the time that I am beautiful and makes me feel better, but I still feel bad when I look in the mirror.

So, you are not alone.
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February 16th, 2006, 11:50 AM
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No matter what your size is whether its a 2 a 10 a 18,or 20+ we're all beautiful in everyway!
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February 18th, 2006, 07:59 PM
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It is the hormones talking.... Just see it this way... If your hubby wanted someone else he would be with them not you.. I have been on the plus side for a long time.. And I feel if my hubby doesn't like it then he can move on.. A person has to accept themself before wanting someone to accept them.. If you are comfortable with yourself then it shows.. My hubby weighs 80 pounds less than me and is a bean pole.. I am short and fat and he is tall and lean.. And since I hold my head up high and don't let things bother me he parades me like I am the most beautiful thing in the world... Fat and all
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February 21st, 2006, 12:25 AM
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I don't think your crazy, most women feel this way even though some may not say so, Nobody likes skinny women flashing and strutting their stuff on tv in front of your fella, but think the other way round...How does he feel when a Fit guy comes on tele? I know it don't seem the same coz women have more to flash than men, but men get just as bad as us women lol.
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