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December 16th, 2005, 12:49 PM
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Well ladies,
Here i am again feeling very heavy hearted!
I tested this morning first thing and got a BFN.
I know am only 10dpo so i still might have a tiny chance,
But i dont think so now. I think my symptoms were severe
case of desparation this mth.
I will poas again on sunday morning and if that bfn,
again on xmas eve which will give me a definate answer
good or bad as i will be a few days late then.
I hold onto a tiny shred of hope because i have to.
It has been such a gruelling 18mths i have told db if
we get another bfn this mth i am not putting myself through
this anymore and i will see dr in jan to go on birth control
till after my birthday in may.
Mentally i cannot take this rollercoaster of emotions.
It is taking over my entire life and i feel so deeply sad
every mth it is not good for my mental wellbeing.
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December 16th, 2005, 02:34 PM
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I think it's still too early to get a positive result. You aren't due for AF for another four days, right? I didn't even implant until four days before AF was due. Are you having any symptoms such as sore/bigger bb's or unusual cramping? What if you're giving up even before you've had a chance to implant? I would give it at least until you're late and try another test. I honestly had the feeling that AF was coming until I had already gotten my positive test days before. Don't give up!
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December 16th, 2005, 02:54 PM
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Yes, Ladybird,

Don't give up yet. It is early and there is definitely still a good chance! I'm so sorry it's been so stressful for you. Please let us know how the next test goes!!! Throwing and your way!!
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December 16th, 2005, 02:59 PM
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Don't give up - 10 DPO is way too early. I know the boxes of early HPT's proclaim you can test up to 4 days before your missed period and that they are 99% accurate, but that 99% accuracy only applies when AF is late - the % are way lower the earlier you take the test.
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December 16th, 2005, 03:27 PM
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Don't give up yet. I think we all get that feeling every month when it comes time to test that we're just so sick of trying but you're not out yet!
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December 16th, 2005, 06:53 PM
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Don't give up.
I'm a HUGE believer in the power of the mind. Think BFP
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December 16th, 2005, 08:22 PM
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I know its hard but stay and think positive only time will tell. If you think negative then the body will think negative. Sometimes stress can cause things not to function right. Take care and if God willing you will soon be a mommy!! THINK POSITIVE!!!
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December 17th, 2005, 06:52 AM
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Thanks for kind words ladies.
I only pray you are right,that its too early to show yet...
I feel so down its terrible and not like me at all.
I think after being at my friends the other day when she tested
posative while i was there has knocked me down.
She has only been trying for 6 wks and has drunk and smoked
like nobodys business and there she is pg!!!!
I have tried my darn best for 18mths and am getting nowhere.
I know am feeling a bit sorry for myself but i cant help it now
I will test again on monday morning now see if that gives me my BFP...
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December 17th, 2005, 07:29 AM
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I'm sooo sorry, ladybird, it really really isn't fair sometimes. Don't give up yet though, the chances of getting a positive on 10dpo are 50-something percent. Everyday closer to AF gives you a way better percentage.
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December 19th, 2005, 11:57 AM
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Dont be so sure yet! 10 days PO is too soon even for the hpt that claim to be able to do so. Id wait till a day past your period if you can. The pregnancy hormone the test is looking for doubles each day so the longer you wait the better your chance of getting an accurate result. Dont despair my friend I am praying for you , Keep the faith and know not to worry because God is in Control !!!! Even when we are not! Kerry
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