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I just held a one day old baby girl who weighs six pounds and looks like a little doll. One of my coworkers daughters baby. It just made me ache and it felt so right with a baby in my arms, I just want to bawl. She just turned eighteen and wasn't planning to have a baby and her and the dad aren't together anymore. Not that I am second guessing God, but sometimes I just don't understand how things work out sometimes. Sorry pity trip, but it is taking everything I have not to bawl and I still have an hour and a half left of work....
I've felt the same way with some of my friends babies. Everytime i've felt like you have though I always ended up buying something to make me feel better . I'm sure you'll get to hold your own baby soon.
Oh I know what you mean. I work in a NICU an there are people who have babies everyday that make you wonder why it's not your turn yet. I'm sorry that you are feeling down. I hope get to feeling better. One day you will hold your child.
I know the feeling... last month when I got my BFN that same day my cousin call me to tell me that his wife is pregnant and that they were not even trying and he wasnt even excited about it... I was like ***?! Here we are trying and trying over and over again and THEY are the ones who got what we pray for so much
I love holding babies, God has the best timing in mind for you. We always want things sooo bad, but he truly kows whats best for us. One day it will all be clear to us why he waited to give us something-it will all make sense then. God bless you hun