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December 23rd, 2008, 05:49 AM
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I tested this morning.... and got a stark white

I'm 14 dpo and I was feeling pretty good about this month. Sore bb's, nausea, crying at the drop of a hat, hungry, and my cervix is still high (can't reach it). AF is due today or tomorrow.

And to make matters worse, it feels like everyone and their mother are pregnant around me....5 co-workers (one found out yesterday and was saying this morning how easy and short is was...) and 4 cousins (one being my best friend...none of them were trying).

Man this sucks
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December 23rd, 2008, 05:51 AM
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It does suck! I'm sorry!
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December 23rd, 2008, 06:44 AM
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Oh honey I'm so sorry... but please remember you're not out until the shows, so chin up
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December 23rd, 2008, 06:45 AM
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December 23rd, 2008, 07:20 AM
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Awww...I'm so sorry hon! It's so hard to be surrounded by those who "aren't even trying" and get pregnant when we all want a baby so badly. Hang in there and I hope that you get a surprise in a few days!!
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December 23rd, 2008, 07:36 AM
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Oh, im so sorry hun! There is still a chance until that shows her face! Good Luck!! I hope you get s Christmas bfp!!
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December 23rd, 2008, 07:49 AM
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Hang in there
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December 23rd, 2008, 07:54 AM
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I'm so sorry. But like everyone else said, it's not over until AF shows up. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
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December 23rd, 2008, 07:55 AM
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I'm sorry!! I agree don't count yourself out until AF shows! Good luck!!
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December 23rd, 2008, 08:16 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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December 23rd, 2008, 08:26 AM
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Thank you ladies! You put me in a better mood today. I pray AF doesn't show and I get a Christmas surprise. .
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December 23rd, 2008, 08:34 AM
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my cervix is still high (can't reach it). AF is due today or tomorrow.[/b]

Are you charting? you said you are 14dpo so im assuming you are but I thought OK well TCOYF says that after you O your cervical position changes and goes back to low firm and closed, if I read it correctly. Is it possible that you are Maybe Oing now and your symptoms are because you are Oing? I hope AF doesnt show for you, you never know maybe you implanted late! Fingers crossed
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December 23rd, 2008, 12:19 PM
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I'm sorry about the BFN, but I hope that the witch stays away!
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December 23rd, 2008, 12:24 PM
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Don't lose hope! Keep track of symptoms and test again if AF doesn't show up.
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December 23rd, 2008, 02:46 PM
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The ladies are right its not over until your period shows. All the best, don't give up hope and try to have a wonderful christmas sweetie x
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December 23rd, 2008, 02:52 PM
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December 23rd, 2008, 05:06 PM
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I'm with the girls its not over to the witch shows her face!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!
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December 23rd, 2008, 06:25 PM
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Thanks again! I'll KUP after the holidays whether or not the ole witch shows.

I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and/or Hanukkah

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