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February 19th, 2009, 07:44 AM
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So last month, I posted that I had only a 7 day leutal phase and then went to see the fertility specialist - we made arrangements for me to come back from that whole bunch of tests after the first day of AF. So I've been patiently waiting through this cycle to get AF and now look at my chart! I'm on day 13! http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/24a6ad

of course this is getting my hopes up that I am pregnant! But, I know that I may just be having a normal cycle and the last two months may have just been wacky. I don't know what to think. I don't feel like I'm about to get AF, but I feel nothing else either (except I have constant diareeha - so maybe I have a flu bug or something.)

TTC really messes with your mind and body.

Also I had two temp dips - and both times, I thought AF was here. I haven't seen any charts on FF with two temp dips. Weird, right?
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February 19th, 2009, 07:46 AM
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Test?

Even if you're not pregnant, I'm glad your LP is better this cycle. Hopefully last cycle was just a fluky thing!
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February 19th, 2009, 07:49 AM
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Test?

Even if you're not pregnant, I'm glad your LP is better this cycle. Hopefully last cycle was just a fluky thing![/b]

I promised DH I would wait until Saturday because he doesn't want me to get my hopes up if it's a fluke. But, secretly, I tested on the 10th, but not with FMU (because he wouldn't get out of the bathroom!!!). So I may just do it tomorrow morning if my temp stays up another day. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but trying to remember that if it's a BFN that at least I can go to my doctor and start finding out if something is wrong.
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February 19th, 2009, 07:52 AM
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Test?

Even if you're not pregnant, I'm glad your LP is better this cycle. Hopefully last cycle was just a fluky thing![/b]

Good Luck!!
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February 19th, 2009, 08:06 AM
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February 19th, 2009, 08:08 AM
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Test!!

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February 19th, 2009, 08:16 AM
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That's crazy!!! usually your LP does't change much from cycle to cycle. I agree, I hope it was a fluke!!! GOOD LUCK when you test!!!!! I'll be anxiously awaiting a BFP from you!!! I hope this is it!!
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February 19th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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Good Luck!![/b]

Aww! I will test tomorrow morning, but I'm soooo scared of seeing a BFN and having my heart break that I almost rather wait for AF to come. I think my chart is very confusing with the two dips down that I'm not sure what to think.

Thanks though! You guys are POAS pushers!
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February 19th, 2009, 08:19 AM
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I say test too!! I know how hard it is to see a BFN though, so if you want to wait until AF shows that's okay. I just think at least you will know and not continue stressing and wondering about it, KWIM?
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February 19th, 2009, 08:21 AM
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That's crazy!!! usually your LP does't change much from cycle to cycle. I agree, I hope it was a fluke!!! GOOD LUCK when you test!!!!! I'll be anxiously awaiting a BFP from you!!! I hope this is it!! [/b]

Yeah, that's why I called the doctor the day AF came last cycle because the cycle before had been only five days long and the next seven and I was super freaked out. So why would I now be on day 13? Seriously, I'm waiting for AF to come to go get the bloodwork and it messes with my head.


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I say test too!! I know how hard it is to see a BFN though, so if you want to wait until AF shows that's okay. I just think at least you will know and not continue stressing and wondering about it, KWIM?[/b]

I know what you mean - so I will wait till tomorrow. Is there a safe way to test without FMU? If I hold it for all day?

Btw, I like you're new siggy.
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February 19th, 2009, 08:23 AM
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Thanks! and i think if you hold it for a long time it's the same as using FMU but i've never been able to hold it long enough during the day!
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February 19th, 2009, 08:44 AM
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Thanks! and i think if you hold it for a long time it's the same as using FMU but i've never been able to hold it long enough during the day![/b]
how long is long? Just a few hours? Should I not drink anything either?
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I don't know, probably as long as you'd normally sleep? That's why i've never been able to do it! I think drinking too much can affect it too. Not 100% sure. Sorry i'm not more of a help!
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February 19th, 2009, 08:57 AM
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Just wanted to wish you good luck and I hope you have a BFP on your hands!!!
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February 19th, 2009, 09:02 AM
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Sorry your cycle is so crazy, but hopefully you'll test in a day or two and have a BFP!!
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Hope your temp stays up and you get a BFP. If not glad that your LP was normal this month and hope it stays that way.
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February 19th, 2009, 10:19 AM
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I would think that at 13dpo holding your pee for like 4 hours would probably be enough, assuming you didnt drink alot of liquids prior to that
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I would think that at 13dpo holding your pee for like 4 hours would probably be enough, assuming you didnt drink alot of liquids prior to that[/b]

Okay, I will try to hold it for four hours without taking in liquids. Although, that's so hard because my stomach has been such a mess!

Thanks everyone!!
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February 19th, 2009, 10:33 AM
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Yea, at 13DPO holding for 3-4 hours will be more than enough! Good Luck!!
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February 19th, 2009, 10:38 AM
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Yea, at 13DPO holding for 3-4 hours will be more than enough! Good Luck!![/b]

Thanks.

Everytime I see your picture, I smile because you and your SO look so happy together. That's a fabulous picture!

I'm going to try to hold off until tomorrow morning maybe in case AF shows. I think I will feel less bad that way.

Has anyone ever seen TWO dips like that? It's so weird.
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