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  #1  
May 7th, 2009, 08:53 AM
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Well girls, here's the story. We are in the process of all of our testing and such with an RE- I had my first appointment March 17, and I had a baseline u/s and b/w done this cycle on CD 4. DH had an s/a done last year that was normal, but my RE requires that a detailed s/a be done including a swimup test, IUI Prep, and anti-sperm antibodies test. Long story short, we couldn't get it scheduled due to folks off at his office and such until tomorrow- I knew the timing would be horrible, but he had no choice. I've had EWCM for 2 days, and got a positive digi OPK today and I just KNOW I'm O'ing today with how bloated I am. We've had to abstain since Monday night for this test, so we're out already this cycle... I just needed to vent. My body typically O's on day 17 or 18, so I knew this was terrible timing (today is CD 16), but I was holding out hope my body would wait!! Waaaaah!
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IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever.

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May 7th, 2009, 08:57 AM
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That SUCKS Jackie Im so sorry, your already going through enough...and then add to that the fact that you have to prevent for those tests!!! Ugh!

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Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
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May 7th, 2009, 09:10 AM
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Aww I'm sorry - that must really suck! You're not completely out until you get your temp shift though, so maybe you'll get lucky and O will hold off just long enough for you to BD tomorrow after your tests...
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May 7th, 2009, 09:15 AM
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I'm sorry Jackie!
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May 7th, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Thank you... I'm so sorry to just come in here and whine- I hate doing that. I just needed to get it off my chest! And for sure we'll still BD after I'm out of work tomorrow, but I am just feeling it is going to be too late. BOO!!!
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 41 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever.

BABY BOY- 7/13/15 @ 34 weeks 6 days

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May 7th, 2009, 09:24 AM
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Aw man, I'm sorry Jackie! Hopefully tomorrow will be just in time!
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May 7th, 2009, 09:27 AM
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I am SOOOO sorry It's not fair
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May 7th, 2009, 09:31 AM
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I'm so sorry Jackie!! That really does suck! Don't feel bad about venting on here. We all need to do that sometimes. I hope it's somehow not too late.
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May 7th, 2009, 09:55 AM
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That stinks, Jackie! Sorry!
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May 7th, 2009, 10:05 AM
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Thanks, ladies. It just figures!
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 41 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever.

BABY BOY- 7/13/15 @ 34 weeks 6 days

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May 7th, 2009, 12:30 PM
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May 7th, 2009, 01:01 PM
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Aw Jackie, that stinks so bad BUT, you never know!!!
Don't ever feel bad for venting, that's why we're here ((((((hugs)))))
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May 7th, 2009, 01:05 PM
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So sorry Jackie! Hope O holds out for you and that all of your tests go well!
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May 7th, 2009, 01:08 PM
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Do you still have to prevent before you talk to the Dr. tomorrow or could you still BD tonight??? sorry, I guess I just don't totally understand. But I'm sorry your body is not cooperating with you.
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May 7th, 2009, 01:18 PM
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Do you still have to prevent before you talk to the Dr. tomorrow or could you still BD tonight??? sorry, I guess I just don't totally understand. But I'm sorry your body is not cooperating with you.
It's not a followup tomorrow- we've had to abstain since Monday night because DH has his test tomorrow morning so no BD'ing. The earliest we can BD is tomorrow after I get home from work, which will probably be too late, and we've missed all of the fertile days... I go in for my actual followup with my RE on Tuesday of next week.
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 41 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever.

BABY BOY- 7/13/15 @ 34 weeks 6 days

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May 7th, 2009, 02:45 PM
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How stressful! I'm sorry, I suppose the only thing I can say is.... in due time. But we all know how hard it is to remember that while TTC! I hoope things so smoothly next cycle. Good luck, KUP! Sorry Jackie!
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May 7th, 2009, 04:12 PM
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that stinks hun!! I'm sorry your body is cooperating hopefully that eggie will hang in there for a little longer so that you can BD!! Good luck with DH's test!!
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May 7th, 2009, 04:26 PM
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oh Jackie...that really bites! I will pray that your O day is delayed!


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May 7th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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I'm sorry Jackie... that just stinks.
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May 7th, 2009, 04:36 PM
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That is really frustrating! Who wouldn't need to vent with that situation! Hope the tests come back normal. Good luck.
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