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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: ID
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If you haven't already read it in the graduates, i lost the baby. So this means we're TTC again, although i have no idea what's up with my cycles. I guess i'm waiting for AF to show?? Anyway i don't know how much i'll be posting yet but i wanted to let you all know what was up.
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Krista
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Oh, Krista, I just found out and I am soooo sorry Please hang in there honey and PM me if you need ANYTHING or just want to talk!!! Lots and lots of HUGE *HUGS*!!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Louisville, KY
Posts: 7,665
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I'm so sorry for your loss Krista. We are all here for you whatever you need. I really wish you didn't have to go through this. You will be in my T&P.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Posts: 8,398
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I'm so sorry this happened to you Krista, have been thinking about you for days...
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: 100% Native Texan!!
Posts: 9,028
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Oh Krista, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know we are here for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,572
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I'm so sorry for your loss Krista. I know there is nothing I can say that can make this difficult time any easier, but I hope you know we are all here to support you when you need us.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Ireland
Posts: 6,122
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I read about your loss in the grads foram. I have been thinking about you since honey. I'm really sorry.
Take as much time as you need we will be here for you when ever you are ready.
You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. X
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Missouri
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I am so sorry Krista for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 6,641
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I read your post in the grads section too..I had been following your updates praying for a miracle for you as I know that when I had what you had it didnt turn out well. Im so very sorry you have to experience this. Take as much time as you need, but know we are all here for you when you are ready to jump back in. If you have any questions please feel free to PM me. Love ya girl. HUGS!!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Montreal
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I'm so sorry.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 2,364
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Krista - I hate hearing when others go through a loss - but there are great supportive women here on JM that have helped me through a loss and through TTC again after a loss. Take time to heal and FEEL. No one expects this or deserves it. I hope the physical part of this is over quickly for you so you can get on with the emotional healing.
(PM me if you want to chat... been where you are.)
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: California
Posts: 2,479
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I know I've already said it but I am so sorry you are back here again. Basically you are just waiting to bleed at this point... which is really hard. Its really unpredictable... when I lost mine, the dr told me it might be light, it might be heavy, I might skip a period altogether and have a heavy one the following cycle. As for me, I bled for about a week, starting about 5 days after I knew I'd lost the baby. The first day was the worst by far, the rest was not so bad physically.
On the TTC side, I know a lot of people wait 3 months after a loss but I have found a LOT of info that says this isn't necessary, and you may be even more fertile in the months following a loss. I waited to get my first period after my loss, but I think once you bleed it is safe to start trying any time. Your body won't get pregnant again until its ready, is the basic message I seem to find.
Hope that helps, and I hope your heart will start to heal soon. Be extra gentle on yourself.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,971
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:dothugs: So sorry Krista!! Keeping you in my T & P
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 1,392
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I posted to you over on the grads section already... But again I just wanna let you know you and your DH are in my prayers.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Manitoba Canada
Posts: 6,749
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again, I'm so sorry Krista...
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,093
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I'm so sorry, Krista... you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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I posted in the Grads as well, but wanted to say again how very sorry I am for your loss.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 4,980
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So sorry, Krista. We are here if you need us.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
Posts: 16,067
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I am so sorry Krista. It was the support on JM that helped me through my loss. If you ever want to talk about it, please let me know.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Texas
Posts: 8,698
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I'm sorry Krista. We'll be here for you..
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