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Can't tell if it's an evap or a... Well, not BFN. (Update in first post)


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  #1  
June 30th, 2009, 07:40 AM
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I'm FREAKING out right now. I woke up early to do some last minute cramming for a college exam and just HAD to POAS. A stupid IC. I POAS two days ago (AF was due) and saw an evap. Then I POAS this morning and there was a shadow there. Something faint. It didn't look like the evap from a couple days ago. And I just can't tell if it's a BFP or not. Even the test looks weird. The test came out streaky. If I'm 2 days late and use my last FRER after holding my urine for 3 & 1/2 hours, do you think I might get an accurate reading? That's when I have to leave for school.

UPDATE (x-posted in TTC): So I've tested a couple times over the past few days and gotten BFNs. This morning makes me 5 days late. So I woke up and took a random temperature and compared to other charts, it falls below the coverline on every one of them. That was depressing... So I went back to sleep, and --TMI ALERT-- started having really sexy dreams. I woke up and was all "ready to go," so I grabbed DH and just started things up. He pulled out to change positions, and there it was -- blood. Nothing happened when I went to pee, but with the low temp and seeing that, I know she'll be in full force later today or sometime tomorrow at the latest. I really had my hopes up yesterday, being FOUR DAYS late... Guess this just isn't our month.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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June 30th, 2009, 07:43 AM
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If you're sure you ovulated the day you think you did, then you should definitely have an accurate result on a FRER no matter if it's FMU or not. Without charting or anything, is it possible that you O'd later than you think? I have to say, though, if the control line is looking weird on the IC, I am not sure I'd trust any other lines that may be there.

That being said, I think you should POAS (FRER) and hopefully we'll see 2 beautiful lines from you! Good luck!
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June 30th, 2009, 07:49 AM
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Good Luck Erin. I hope you see 2 fab lines soon.
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June 30th, 2009, 07:51 AM
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I have no idea when I ovulated this month. I usually O CD 18 or 19. I SUCKED at charting this month. Didn't chart the first half because of vacation, then charted for a week, then stopped charting because I just wanted to take the rest of the month off too.

The control line doesn't look weird... The white space on the test looks weird. Like horizontal streaks.

I may have Od later than I think. I couldn't get a +OPK for anything, and I usually get two of them. That's another part of the reason I got aggravated and gave up. But I definitely see a temp drop on my chart around the time I should have Od, and EWCM, but didn't chart long enough to see the rise.
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(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




^^ Click graphic for chart ^^


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June 30th, 2009, 08:15 AM
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I agree a FRER will tell you! Good luck sweetie!!!
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June 30th, 2009, 08:19 AM
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I would use a FRER tomorrow morning!!!!

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June 30th, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Use a FRER!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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June 30th, 2009, 09:18 AM
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Use the FRER before you have to leave for sure, it should be an accurate result!
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Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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June 30th, 2009, 09:33 AM
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Hope this is it for you, Erin! GL when you test again - seems like it is definitely worth it to buy a FRER or a digi!
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June 30th, 2009, 09:59 AM
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How exciting! TEST!!!!!
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June 30th, 2009, 01:31 PM
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I agree about using a FRER! Good luck! I hope you see two unmistakable lines!
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June 30th, 2009, 02:00 PM
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POST THE PICS!!!!!!!! lets see whats going on...GOOD LUCK!
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June 30th, 2009, 03:55 PM
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Did you test yet???
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June 30th, 2009, 04:49 PM
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I'd use the FRER. And post the pics.
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June 30th, 2009, 05:18 PM
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FRER after just 3 hours of holding my urine was a BFN. I don't want to try another one again tomorrow morning, but if AF doesn't come tomorrow, I'll take one the next day. (Which would make me 4 days late.)
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)


Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.




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June 30th, 2009, 07:45 PM
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So sorry- Hope you see a BFP tomorrow!
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June 30th, 2009, 09:21 PM
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Good luck Erin!!! KUP!!
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July 1st, 2009, 06:22 AM
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I'm sorry you had to see a BFN Erin! I hope the witch stays away and you get your BFP!
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July 1st, 2009, 08:21 AM
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Sorry about the bfn...wait a couple days and I hope AF stays away!
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July 1st, 2009, 12:48 PM
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I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get a BFP in the morning! Keep us posted!
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