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Well the only time my SO wants to go shopping is when we have no money.. he says that we can just go and look around, see what we need to get and then go back and buy it on payday! Well I think that's absolutely ridiculous! I like to go shopping when we can actually shop!!
I don't think it's a big deal. As long as he's not going out and buying things when you don't have money then what's the harm in dreaming? It may annoy you, but I don't think it's one of those things that needs to be turned into a big deal. Maybe it's relaxing to him? As long as your finances aren't being compromised I wouldn't make anything of it. Oh, and I think the internet shopping is a good idea, too, if it really bugs you.
Mom to Keira (6), Garrett (5), Libby (3), and William (8-29-12) "I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it."
- Thomas Jefferson
You ask my SO to go to the mall he asks what are we getting?, what stores are we going to?, how long are we going to be there?, do you wanna eat first or after? etc. It drives me crazy. Not like when I call my friend and ask her and she says okay and asks when to go and that's it. I just want to get out of the house and maybe people watch, eat a pretzel and complain about not being to afford the big diamond necklace in the window of a jewelery store. I keep mall trips a girl thing cause guys just don't seem to get it right. Maybe your husband doesn't get that if you see something you like and don't have the money for it and come back with money what you want may not be there next time? Like a pair of shoes or a piece of clothing. That usually happens to me when I shop and have no money.