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January 23rd, 2012, 10:45 AM
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Missing my angel baby!
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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We all know TTC is frustrating. So tell us what your least favorite thing about TTC is. What do you hate the most about trying to get preggo?
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January 23rd, 2012, 11:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: East Falls, Pennsylvania
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My least favourite thing is that I'm coming up on 3 years without ever seeing a single solitary BFP. I know losses hurt, but this is a whole different kind of pain...
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January 23rd, 2012, 12:39 PM
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TTC #1 after loss
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Other than the obvious of not seeing a BFP, I would say worrying about every little thing I do and how it might affect my chances.
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January 23rd, 2012, 12:55 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: long island, ny
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i agree with both of you. also that if everything we used preseed and counter booster doesn't work....i hate the waiting, the ttc so i said screw it, we arent preventing and arent trying so ofdf i go back from ttc to ntnp. its cool though, i'm ok with the decision. less stress hopefully lol. secret stash of ovulation and preggo tests lol. im a poas addict
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January 23rd, 2012, 03:07 PM
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Proud Co-Host of TTC #1
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: san diego, ca
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I hate the fact that we hardly ever BD anymore without knowing we have an agenda behind it. 
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January 23rd, 2012, 03:18 PM
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Missing my angel baby!
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My least favorite thing is waiting. Waiting to O, Waiting to see if it worked. Waiting to test, waiting to make sure we have enough money to buy sperm, waiting for another cycle. Waiting, waiting, waiting.
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January 23rd, 2012, 03:41 PM
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Proud Co-Host of TTC#1
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Green Bay, WI
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Ditto Karin!
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January 23rd, 2012, 04:57 PM
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Cautiously expecting #1
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Location: Japan
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All the stress it brings to my previously stress-free life. Stress from waiting, stress from the loss and worrying about another, stressing about timing, stress from having everything in my life suddenly be about TTC. I'm so impatient, especially when I want something so badly! All that being said, I'm doing better than this post makes it sound!
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January 23rd, 2012, 06:33 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Edmonton AB, Canada
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I hate that it's made me so jealous and sad that I can't handle hearing about pregnancies or being around newborns... I need time before I can go near them without crying. The emotions aren't something that can be controlled and just take over me at the worst times!
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January 23rd, 2012, 07:40 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 758
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The waiting is horrible!! I hate waiting to test! so much stress. And them seeing that BFN!! It's a heart breaker!!
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January 23rd, 2012, 08:39 PM
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broken
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Indiana
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Coley
My least favourite thing is that I'm coming up on 3 years without ever seeing a single solitary BFP. I know losses hurt, but this is a whole different kind of pain...
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as well as seeing other women on their 2nd pregnancy when they were pregnant with their first around the same time we started to ttc...
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January 23rd, 2012, 09:13 PM
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Regular
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: North Las Vegas
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I agree WAITING is the worst part. Now that we've actually decided to try it's all I can think about. This stress is definately going to set my cycle off track
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January 23rd, 2012, 09:29 PM
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Member
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Join Date: Aug 2011
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My least favorite is the "are they or arent they" symptomss.. and how crazy i drive myself with them.
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January 23rd, 2012, 09:51 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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Originally Posted by ashaalay
My least favorite is the "are they or arent they" symptomss.. and how crazy i drive myself with them.
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Omg!! I am right there with you!! I feel like I'm going crazy! Analyzing every "symptom" I have!!
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January 23rd, 2012, 11:08 PM
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TTC our first since 2009
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Oregon
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Coley
My least favourite thing is that I'm coming up on 3 years without ever seeing a single solitary BFP. I know losses hurt, but this is a whole different kind of pain...
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This one..
I just hit cycle #30 at 2.5 years so I'm a bit behind you but I've never seen even a hint of a BFP so I know this pain quite well.
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Originally Posted by kbpeanut
I hate the fact that we hardly ever BD anymore without knowing we have an agenda behind it. |
Also this.
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Originally Posted by Tammyms
I hate that it's made me so jealous and sad that I can't handle hearing about pregnancies or being around newborns... I need time before I can go near them without crying. The emotions aren't something that can be controlled and just take over me at the worst times!
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And this one is probably the worst. My youngest sister had her 2nd baby mid December and I still haven't gone to see them...and we live in the same town. She hasn't made an effort to invite me either though so it's kind of awkward now.
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January 24th, 2012, 07:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: South Carolina
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The stress of waiting. The stress of wanting to know if we did everything right. The stress of wondering if there is anything wrong with us.
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January 24th, 2012, 09:48 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: uk
Posts: 485
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I hate the not knowing the most... not knowing if it will ever happen. Im quite lucky i dont get stressed or jealous but i do feel like a failure in a way.
It doesnt help that SO got his ex pg so quickly and he didnt even know they were trying so i feel all the pressure is on me as he knows he can produce a child.
but I LOVE how close this has brought us  he's happy with all the BD!!! 
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January 24th, 2012, 11:01 AM
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Proud Co-Host of TTC#1
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Green Bay, WI
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Tammyms
I hate that it's made me so jealous and sad that I can't handle hearing about pregnancies or being around newborns... I need time before I can go near them without crying. The emotions aren't something that can be controlled and just take over me at the worst times!
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I hear you there. On Xmas I balled after my brother announced they were expecting and I just hate feeling that way because I want to be happy for them.
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January 24th, 2012, 12:14 PM
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Expecting #1
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Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 6,264
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Starting from scratch and having a hard time hearing about pregnancies.
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