[bellabri287]

i cannot get sex off the brain! i think about having sex, plotting when to have sex, all the time! i am not horny or anything, i'm just thinking of all the times we should do it before i O! then i get nervous we will miss O, so i am like then we must BD more! this is so what DH did NOT want, i'm hiding it from him but yikes!

i am taking B6 to legthen my LP, so i am worried my usual O will move from around CD 18 up more. but then again i had a cortisone shot in my wrist yesterday and FREAKED OUT on the nurse... probably something that will delay O.

i am also nervous that even though DH said he was OK with Nov & Dec babies that he isn't and will resent me if I get PG this cycle. he keeps saying "well we aren't TRYING to get PG" but he said it was OK... and I chart so how would he expect me to not TRY.

i wish i could see the future.

[*Manda*]

It's impossible not to obsess over TTC but try to relax as much as possible and have fun

[Belita]

Understandable! Most guys don't get it so that's why we have JM!

[Jen@FirsAve]

My SO really doesnt get it either, especially the not horny but almost obsession-like thoughts of BDing lol

[Cait&AngelAbove]

It can definately become an obsession.

[Christa225]

This is exactly how I sound and feel. I'm so glad u said something. Although now that i just started charting it seems my obsession is with that. That past 3 yrs it was TTC and now its just to understand charting. Either TTC is an obsession. Thanks for sharing and if u find an off button please share :-)

[bellabri287]

Don't obsess over your chart, it will slowly becomes easier to notice what's going on. Do you have an instructor or book? I used TCOYF as the basis for leanring to chart and I love it. This is cycle 4 charting and I am nervous every cycle I won't O or I won't read the signs right, I don't know what that will go away.

I also get mad when i get up[ to pee in the night because it throws off my temp, LOL! I actually don't drink more than 1/2 glass of water/juice after 7pm because of that.

I was plotting BD tonight but DH is home late and I'm annoyed. I will not force it.

[Tammyms]

I have no advice because I used to get obsessed too! I've learned to relax a wee bit but I try hard not to worry if we miss O!

[blueeyes25s]

It's hard not to obsess but when it's something you want, it's something you want now lol. Just try to relax and have fun with it.