I was one of those who was here for the one cycle and got the BFP. We all can see how that worked out.

I didn't get it then, the excitement was just overwhelming, but I get it now. I don't think I even posted a BFP thread because it was just my first cycle, just posted in the testing thread at the time. It happens less over here because it's so much smaller. I actually just started looking in on threads in the bigger board if I know the person has been trying a while because it got to be too much. Good days and bad days for all of us.
I still wouldn't wish any of this on anyone, but it would be nice if nobody had to wait so long. TTC is one of the very few things that means so much and you just have so little control over.
DH and I wanted to date, we just did it.
We wanted to live together, we just did it.
We wanted to get married, we just did it.
We wanted to get pregnant, we tried and lost it. I hate TTC, but keep reminding myself the end result will be worth it.