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June 10th, 2012, 05:42 PM
IndyMommyWannabe's Avatar Always Hoping & Praying
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but right now I am getting realllllllllllllllllly close!

I have to come here and post or else I may start a family feud on facebook...lol

So my husband's family...one of his cousin's is extreme trash. This cousin has three daughters (none have the same father, and in fact is in a relationship with one of her daughter's father's brother...get me on that one? it's her ex's brother - BUT she has been with him for like 10 years...)

ANYWAYS so one of the girls is 18. I've heard rumor from my husband's brother's wife that this girl has been PURPOSELY trying to get herself pregnant (she is seriously trash, I honestly don't even know if she did graduate high school...)

Her aunt (my husband's cousin, sister of trashy cousin, this aunt is cool/not trash like her sister)...is telling this girl like it is on her FB page...and I am trying SOOOOOOO hard not to get involved...

so I have to come here and get it out of my system! lol.

But yeah - so this girl is pregnant. FRICKIN' SERIOUSLY?????!!!!!!!!!!!!! she has NO job - NO apartment - she's slept with like every guy she comes in contact with (from what I've heard...)

I may get some replies here not liking this post...but ****it I AM SO FRUSTRATED right now!

I'm afraid to go to thanksgiving this year...let's say I AM pregnant from IVF by then - I may end up saying something to this girl...I can already see it...

ok, i just need to calm down and get this outta my system here otherwise I may say something on FB that I regret...and yes I have to unfriend this girl. She's all drama all the time anyways...
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June 10th, 2012, 05:48 PM
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*hugs*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm sure a lot of us have had these moments. I would feel the same way I'm positive!
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June 10th, 2012, 06:27 PM
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Wow...I don't blame you at all for feeling the way you do That is such a sad situation. Why do these young, unmarried girls try to get pregnant on purpose? I know of one who did that as well. She's 17 and due right away.

At least you know that you are set up and ready for a baby, and your baby will have an amazing life.
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June 10th, 2012, 07:25 PM
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Ugh!! I can relate!! Hope you don't mind if I join in on your rant party!!

DH's dad is on his 3rd marriage, right? So his wife's son, who is only like 23, meets this girl and falls all crazy in love. She's already got a kid and within 6 months... he's gotten her pregnant. I literally wanted to blow my brains out!!

We found out that the "father" just quit his job because he says the giant SUV (he stupidly bought after finding out about the baby) costs too much to fill with gas to drive to work, he's too tired and it's too hot. I take issue with all of those excuses, especially the gas "line" because gas prices are lower than they've been all year! I just saw the freakin' story on the news!!

Anyway... FIL calls DH's cell to find out if we're coming to the shower and DH says "Assume No, but we'll see." After he hung up he said "The next time I talk to my dad I need to explain to him that we've been trying to have a baby for a really long time now and celebrating everybody else's Oops's is... painful. Here we are, mature enough and ready to be parents and we can't get any luck at all... Yeah, we're not going."

I couldn't have said it better... We went through it with her first daughter having her Oops & shotgun wedding. It's just freakin' enough already!!
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June 10th, 2012, 07:31 PM
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god do I wish we could say that to his family! I just keep having visions of thanksgiving in my head right now...and they all end up with the cops being called on me!!!! hahahaha!!!!!

ok, I honestly never ever would physically do anything - although I may end up calling her some really nasty names and storming out of the house...

I mean it - frickin' seriously???? I'm not exaggerating or joking that this girl has been PURPOSELY trying to get pregnant with the 3 or 4 guys she's been hangin' around with. I am so angry right now, I just don't even know!
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IVF=ONLY option

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February 2014 = Frozen #2 - Transfer remaining 2 - IMPLANTATION!
8 weeks, D&C - blighted ovum - Triploidy


July 2014 = Fresh IVF #2!


"Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us!"

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June 10th, 2012, 08:10 PM
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I just keep having visions of thanksgiving in my head right now...and they all end up with the cops being called on me!!!! hahahaha!!!!!


If I were a guest at that table I'd totally be like
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June 10th, 2012, 09:42 PM
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You have every reason to rant! I hear of stories like that in my life and I still get upset because I think of my JM girls who have been trying forever and are so deserving! It just brings me back to why not them? Why the drug addict? 16 year old 1st timer? Person who's on the pill using condoms and doesn't want it? WHY WHY WHY???
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June 11th, 2012, 10:50 AM
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June 13th, 2012, 05:54 PM
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you have every right to rant!! my dh's family has some people like that to and it drives me nuts. every time a sibling calls its to say hey you're going to be a Uncle again and i just want to scream. his brother called to tell us once and i yelled "omg! are you serious again..cut if off i'm serious just cut it off" he thought i was joking.
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June 18th, 2012, 09:20 AM
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OMG! I'd be pissed too! I don't know if I could keep my mouth shut at Thanksgiving!
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November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

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All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
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