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February 11th, 2013, 09:17 PM
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I had a great birthday. DH and I had dinner with one of my best friends and his girlfriend. I got lots of great gifts.

But I couldn't help feeling like my birthday would be so much better if I were pregnant. That would be the BEST birthday gift ever.

I know I should be grateful for what I have, but has anyone else ever felt like this?
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February 11th, 2013, 09:22 PM
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Yes, yes, and YES.
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February 12th, 2013, 05:57 AM
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Yep, totally been there!

For my 32nd birthday I wished to have a baby or be pregnant by my 33rd. For my 33rd birthday, I made the same wish.

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February 12th, 2013, 06:08 AM
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Nearly all the time....I almost feel selfish. I have what others don't have and I wish that I could be thankful, but most of the time I'm not.
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February 12th, 2013, 08:16 AM
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I definitely feel like this often - you are not alone we are all in this together
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February 12th, 2013, 09:00 AM
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Thanks so much for understanding, everyone. Sometimes I just feel completely overwhelmed with the desire to have a baby. It means a lot to me that you guys feel the same and that I'm able to talk to you about it.

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February 12th, 2013, 09:36 AM
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Yep! I feel like that every year. It is hard.
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February 12th, 2013, 11:16 AM
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Caitlin, I'm sorry that you feel this way every year, too. It's an awful feeling, I know. I wish that we didn't have to go through this.
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February 12th, 2013, 11:23 AM
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I wish we didn't have to either.
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February 12th, 2013, 11:42 AM
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I wish that I could just wave a magic wand and we could all have what we want!!
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February 12th, 2013, 01:22 PM
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I too understand how you feel, I suspect most, if not everyone, on this board will feel that same way. it sucks

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February 12th, 2013, 04:47 PM
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Yes ma'am!! I had a little bit of a breakdown the other day after my 3rd really misleading evap line this month. The hubby was such a doll and just held me while i cried and complained. The last week I haven't even wanted to go near the peestick aisle at the store when we go, which is unusual for me because hubby knows I am a POAS addict!

DH's cousin who has been having really bad marital issues found out she is about 12 weeks along now. Upsetting as hell. Really wanted to think some nasty thoughts but instead I just cried
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