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February 15th, 2013, 05:07 AM
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So here is what happened the last couple days:

I get home on Wed and take a OPK test, CD16, and I'm thinking I probably missed my window. Then I look over and the second line is BRIGHT and DARK! That was the most encouraging thing I had seen yet in my TTC time.

I call DH to GET HIS BUTT HOME RIGHT NOW!!!!

He comes home an hour later......and he's in a sullen mood.

We go upstairs and I ask, " are you mad at me?"
"Yes and no."

"Ok why?"
So he goes into this explanation on why he is not ready blah blah blah....see the thing is is that we have been through this same argument before. I know where he stands and he knows where I stand.
Me: "I am so exhausted from crying about this. Can we talk about this later?" (This usually gives him time to think and rationalize)

AFTER ALL THAT we DTD turkey baster style (suuuuper EWCM---the second encouraging thing!) and I fall asleep (it's pretty late by this time)

I wake up next to DH.....he looks so sweet, I love him so much.

He wakes up and explains what he's actually anxious about. (Back story in a nutshell: he is trying to invent something with MRI school teacher) The invention is going very slowly and he's frustrated his workspace is so cluttered.

"I can help clean this weekend. Put me to work!"

This brightens him up considerably! (The third encouraging thing!)

I get home from work yesterday and he is in a helpful and determined mood (this is when he gets the most work done). He explains that it wasn't TTCing he was down about, but his inability to function in his workspace.

Looks like we are still on for next month if no BFP this month!!!!!
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February 15th, 2013, 05:23 AM
Nicholle ttc's Avatar TTC our first!
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Yay! I'm glad that you and DH talked and are both on the same page.
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Me (33)-LP on the short side, but no other abnormalities
DH (37)-slightly subfertile morphology and motility


Natural cycles-August 2011-July 2012
August 2012-October 2012 clomid and progesterone
November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

January 2013-February 2013, long protocol IVF
15 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI
All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
Only 1 frozen snowbaby
1st IVF


May 10, 2013, lap sx, Stage 1 endo

June 2013 - MA Round 2
Femara + hcg shot
IUI # 2


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February 15th, 2013, 05:38 AM
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Whew! Men are so crazy. At least you all talked it out.

Hopefully this cycle will be it.
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February 15th, 2013, 06:55 AM
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So glad you guys talked it all through and ended up on the same page!! That is so great!!!!!! Hope you catch that eggie
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February 15th, 2013, 08:13 AM
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Yay! I am so glad y'all were able to talk and figure things out!
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February 15th, 2013, 08:59 AM
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Glad yougotto the bottom of DHs anxiety, they can be so odd at times! I hope you caught that eggie!
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February 15th, 2013, 11:10 AM
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Anyone else's DH get cold feet at all?

Or SO or DF?
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February 15th, 2013, 01:59 PM
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I am so glad that you and your DH worked everything out. I hope you get your BFP soon!!!
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