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March 15th, 2013, 07:03 PM
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Okay. I SHOULD be 14 dpo. I gauged ovulation by EWCM and positive OPK. So far all of my hpts has been negative. I was chatting about this with this woman I babysit for and she said "I think probably since its negative at this point then you probably aren't pregnant." She really vocalized what I have been feeling.

So the question is how long do I let this go? How long do I wait and wait and wait for my stupid, depressing, annoying period? When do I call my doc to beg something to end the longest cycle ever?

And why is this happening? Could I have pcos? I don't think I fit the bill. I even googled "lean pcos". There doesn't even seem to be a good answer about what causes pcos.

I HATE my body right now.

And I bet I'll have a lousy, heavy period right in the middle of my spring break. Curses.

Sorry for the whine fest. This could have something to do with the fact that I've been up since before 5 am working four jobs today. I tend to be emotional when I'm tired.
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March 15th, 2013, 07:13 PM
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I am so sorry. *hugs* ttc is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. Every month waiting... opk... praying.. and bfn...

My fingers are crossed my you get your bfp soon!
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March 15th, 2013, 08:58 PM
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I'm really sorry, Sam. It can be such a struggle when our bodies don't cooperate. I hate wondering what is going on with mine. I am emotional when I am tired, too.

I'm sorry that I don't have an answer for you, but I will definitely keep you in my thoughts.
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March 15th, 2013, 11:12 PM
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*hugs* I'm sorry sweetie!!!!

If AF doesn't show this weekend, and it's still a BFN, I'd call your DR and make an appointment. If anything, maybe they'll give you provera to jumpstart AF so you can start next cycle!
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March 16th, 2013, 05:38 AM
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I am sorry!!! I agree with Ashley if nothing in the next few days then I would call your doctor.
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March 16th, 2013, 08:00 AM
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Wow, that's a really long time... I think a some point maybe you should talk to a doctor.

I did go about that long a few times in the last year, and I was testing 2 or three times a week for 3 weeks and all the BFNs were incredibly disheartening.... and when it finally did come it was like AF from hell. I feel your pain.
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March 16th, 2013, 08:01 AM
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Wow, that's a really long time... I think a some point maybe you should talk to a doctor.

I did go about that long a few times in the last year, and I was testing 2 or three times a week for 3 weeks and all the BFNs were incredibly disheartening.... and when it finally did come it was like AF from hell. I feel your pain.
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March 18th, 2013, 07:39 AM
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So sorry Sam. I agree with Ashley. Call your doc this week. GL and KUP!
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March 18th, 2013, 08:10 AM
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Ditto all the other ladies, I would be calling up the doc - so sorry Sam!!!!
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March 18th, 2013, 09:20 AM
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It's so good to have a community with whom I can share my frustrations.

I did call my doc this morning bc no AF yet. I'm going to request a pretty extensive blood work panel. I couldn't believe it but they have an opening for tomorrow morning.

Thanks for all of the hugs and support I'll let y'all know how it goes.
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March 18th, 2013, 09:44 AM
Nicholle ttc's Avatar TTC our first!
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Yay!!! Glad that they could get you in so early!
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Me (33)-LP on the short side, but no other abnormalities
DH (37)-slightly subfertile morphology and motility


Natural cycles-August 2011-July 2012
August 2012-October 2012 clomid and progesterone
November 2012-IUI
December 2012, cysts from IUI, on bcp

January 2013-February 2013, long protocol IVF
15 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI
All 7 made it to 5 day transfer, 2 were transferred
Only 1 frozen snowbaby
1st IVF


May 10, 2013, lap sx, Stage 1 endo

June 2013 - MA Round 2
Femara + hcg shot
IUI # 2


FET tentatively scheduled for 10/31/13

Have never seen a bfp.






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March 18th, 2013, 11:36 AM
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Thats great that you were able to get into see the doc so soon! I'm sorry you even need to go in the first place though
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