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June 7th, 2013, 02:32 PM
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It has been an awful day here. Our fur baby was hit by a car this morning and the damage was too much. We had to get her put to sleep. My little girl is gone and I don't know how I am going to live without her here. She was the best puppy in the world and the thought of her being gone is heartbreaking. We buried her in the bottom of his parents yard beside a tree. It hasn't fully hit me yet that she's really gone. I'm just numb right now. Your prayers are much appreciated.
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June 7th, 2013, 02:38 PM
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Oh my gosh, i'm so very very sorry. It makes me sad just reading this so I cant possibly imagine how youre feeling. You and DH will be in my thoughts
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June 7th, 2013, 03:26 PM
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I am so sorry! *hugs* I have been there and it is aweful. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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June 7th, 2013, 03:40 PM
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Oh sweetie I'm so sorry
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June 7th, 2013, 05:27 PM
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My dogs and cats are like family to me so I understand how heartbreaking this must be for you. Of course I will be praying for you all. I am sorry to read about this.
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June 7th, 2013, 05:43 PM
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Sending prayers your way... I can't imagine the pain you are going through today. Losing a pet is hard...
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June 7th, 2013, 06:16 PM
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Oh no, I'm so very sorry!

Many prayers coming your way. I hope you can find some comfort in the memories you have of her, I'm sad to hear that this happened.
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June 7th, 2013, 06:49 PM
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Thanks for all the support. It has been a very emotional day and I am missing her so much already. She was like a child to me and its hard to let her go. I know she would want us to move on and after a while it will get easier. I'm just thankful that she is not in pain and scared anymore. It was hard to watch her hurt like that and know there was nothing I could do about it. She's the third dog we have had to let got but at least the other two are alive. I keep expecting her to jump on my lap like she did sometimes when I was on the computer. Its so quiet at home without her here to entertain us. Thanks again for the support.
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June 7th, 2013, 08:00 PM
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I'm so very sorry to hear this. Losing a pet is so incredibly difficult.

I had to have my horse put down almost three years ago. I went through all the pictures I had of him and I made a gorgeous scrapbook of our shows together and all our momentous occasions. It still brings me a lot of happiness that I have it and I can look at all our memories any time I want.

I really recommend memorializing your puppy in some way. It was also really therapeutic to make it.

I'm so, so sorry you lost your puppy. ((Hugs)) and I hope you find some comfort soon.
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June 8th, 2013, 04:25 AM
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I am so so sorry! I can't imagine how hard that is. Makes me cry just thinking about losing my dog.
Youre in my prayers
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June 8th, 2013, 05:06 AM
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I'm so sorry for you loss! I can't even imagine what you are going through. T&Ps go out to you!
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June 9th, 2013, 07:51 PM
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I'm doing some better. We put flowers on her grave Saturday and my father in law is going to make us a cross for it. I still miss her but it helps to know she is in no pain anymore.
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June 9th, 2013, 08:16 PM
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I'm doing some better. We put flowers on her grave Saturday and my father in law is going to make us a cross for it. I still miss her but it helps to know she is in no pain anymore.
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June 10th, 2013, 06:04 AM
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Oh my goodness I am so very sorry.
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June 10th, 2013, 07:43 AM
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This just breaks my heart, too. I can't even think about losing my dogs, it just tears me up.

I hope you are doing Ok today...
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June 10th, 2013, 10:15 AM
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'I am doing a little better today. I still miss her a lot and wish she was here. She would want us to move ahead and not dwell on the pain. Some people say that dogs don't have souls but personally I disagree. How can they be so sweet and loving and not have a soul. We are going to get another fur baby sometime but no other dog can take the place of our little girl.
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June 10th, 2013, 10:41 AM
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I am so sorry!! Hugs and prayers to you guys!

I understand how you feel. I had to put down my fur baby a few years ago and it was one of the most difficult things ever. I still think about him and miss him but time and a new fur baby definitely helped.
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June 11th, 2013, 02:46 PM
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It's getting easier to bear. I'm just still so sad about it. Tears come to my eyes just thinking about her. We are hoping to find a new furbaby this summer. Between my parents and the neighbor I think we will have one. My parents feel horrible that she died at their house. It wasn't their fault she went to the road. That was her choice and we are all paying for it in some way. Time will move on and the grief will lesson some. I'm just thankful she is at peace and not in pain.
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June 12th, 2013, 05:01 AM
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It has been an awful day here. Our fur baby was hit by a car this morning and the damage was too much. We had to get her put to sleep. My little girl is gone and I don't know how I am going to live without her here. She was the best puppy in the world and the thought of her being gone is heartbreaking. We buried her in the bottom of his parents yard beside a tree. It hasn't fully hit me yet that she's really gone. I'm just numb right now. Your prayers are much appreciated.
I'm so very sorry for your loss... I know exactly what that feels like. Huge (((Hugs)))
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June 12th, 2013, 04:50 PM
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It's been a rough day here. I'm feeling down and have no energy. I know I have to go through the pain to move on but I hate feeling this way. It's like I am not in control anymore and that feels horrible. I don't think a new pet would help right now. My husband is asleep on the couch and even though I know he worked hard today that is really bothering me. I'm stuck here all day alone and cannot wait for him to come home and now that he is he's sleeping. It was different when trixie was here to keep me company but she's gone now. I feel so lost right now. At least I am mostly on track with my cycle and this isn't affecting it much.
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