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July 11th, 2013, 12:29 PM
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Woke up this morning with a big cramp. Got some more clear EWCM and went to check my CP and there was some blood

Now My lower back hurts like crazy and I have AF like cramps. I kind of wanted her to come because of all the weird things and spotting from last month but I am not gonna lie it hurts a little to move onto the next cycle. I just want to be an expecting mom already.

On the other hand it will be nice to get an actual AF. Sorry about the pity me party.
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July 11th, 2013, 12:30 PM
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AF arriving always sucks.
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July 11th, 2013, 12:38 PM
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awwww *big hugs*

af sucks... but your body needs to refresh itself so that way you can get knocked up and say g'bye to her for 10 or more months!
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July 11th, 2013, 12:40 PM
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Please don't be sorry! AF coming is always at least depressing and sometimes devastating. I hope that this next cycle is normal and ends in a BFP!

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July 11th, 2013, 12:40 PM
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Stupid AF. She be the ugliest b**ch I ever did see.

On the bright side...I hope this is an indicator that your body is figuring itself out and that you won't have any more weird spotting.

It's ok to be sad though
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July 11th, 2013, 12:41 PM
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Thanks ladies. The good is what I should be focusing on right now.
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July 11th, 2013, 12:49 PM
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AF is the worst I hope this is your last AF for a good long while
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July 11th, 2013, 01:43 PM
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I am sorry Ashley!!!
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July 11th, 2013, 04:08 PM
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I'm so sorry. Please don't worry about the pity party.... Post away! You need to get it off your chest.

AF sucks. Hopefully it will not be too painful and you can look forward to gearing up for a BFP ASAP.

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July 11th, 2013, 05:21 PM
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HHHmmmm.....the AF symptoms are gone and now no spotting...she is tricking me that witch!
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July 11th, 2013, 06:43 PM
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I'm so sorry Ashley Like others have said, this could be a good sign of your body adjusting and becoming more regular!
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July 11th, 2013, 07:25 PM
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So sorry, that always stinks. I hope it's not too awful.

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July 12th, 2013, 01:49 AM
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Ditto to the other ladies
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July 12th, 2013, 06:55 AM
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Any more AF symptoms today or have they stayed gone?
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July 12th, 2013, 02:08 PM
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Ladies AF is here full swing!! No spotting thank god! A regular AF along with some cramps and a headache. I have come to the conclusion that even if I were pregnant that It would feel so similar to AF symptoms I wouldnt guess it!!
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July 12th, 2013, 02:37 PM
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I hope that ends all the wonkiness for you!!!! So excited to see your ticker say CD1!!!!!!!!!

I hope this is your cycle!!! Fx for you!
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July 12th, 2013, 02:53 PM
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Thanks Elle!
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July 12th, 2013, 02:54 PM
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Onward! I admire your spirit Great that your body is regulating, even if that means it comes with AF. FX for a great BFP later this cycle!
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July 12th, 2013, 03:13 PM
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Thanks mel! I hope that was a random occurence with the spotting. It is definitely nice to see a regular AF. Things have been crazy lately so I am hoping it was just stress throwing her off!
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July 12th, 2013, 06:16 PM
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It always is a downer to see AF. But- look at it this way- this marks the page for a whole new chance to conceive. That's the way I TRY to look at it. Enjoy a glass of wine it will help take your mind off things! I am doing so now- even tho we are not trying right now. :-)

I have 2 more months to wait and the suspense is killing me!!!
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