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  #1  
September 12th, 2013, 01:33 PM
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Went to the dr. Took a pee test and it came back negative.
How dumb do I feel.
Trying to hold back tears.
Done. All hope is out the window.

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September 12th, 2013, 02:00 PM
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Sweetie I'm so sorry.
I know there aren't words but we are here if you need to talk or just vent

And sometimes it's ok to cry, you don't have to hold them back
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September 12th, 2013, 02:02 PM
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When I got home and went to the restroom I noticed blood on my pad.
So is this a miscarriage? Or was I never pregnant?
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September 12th, 2013, 03:19 PM
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ok.

#1- go pee on something
#2- Doctors pee tests have an HCG threshold of 100 or above.
#3- I have seen the crappiest betas turn into a beautiful little girl (and if she's lurking like she often does, she might pipe up about it)
#4- Has anyone done a beta yet?
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September 12th, 2013, 03:31 PM
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The urine that I used this morning was very diluted. Almost as clear as water. But when I asked the nurse if my diluted urine had any effect on the test, she said no.
I just called my dr and asked for a blood test. She said I will either get a call back later today or tomorrow. I will be sending dh out for some more test in a little bit. (Note: morning urine was never good for me)
I figured I was bleeding heavy because I saw a streak on my pad. But now since I've been home and trying to relax it has gone back to spotting.
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September 12th, 2013, 04:23 PM
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On my way now for a blood test and I have another one Saturday.
Wish me luck(:
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September 12th, 2013, 05:58 PM
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I went and got blood drawn and go back Saturday.
My sister had an extra pg test and gave it to me. Not sure exactly which one it is. But she said its one that's a little more pricey. I also went to the dollar store and got two cheapies. Took one when I got home, and there is a faint second line. I know my eyes are not playing tricks on me. Dh saw it too. I am going to hold my urine for three hours with no water and take the second one around 7pm.
Wish me luck.
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September 12th, 2013, 06:58 PM
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good luck sweetie!!
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Polypectomy - 08/21/14 Laproscopy - 12/05/2014
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Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Cycle 1: Clomid cd3-7 ~ bfn
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September 12th, 2013, 07:20 PM
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September 12th, 2013, 07:59 PM
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Thanks ladies
Almost time to take my second test.
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September 12th, 2013, 08:20 PM
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That's great that they scheduled 2 betas right off the bat. Those comparative results should tell you a lot.
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September 12th, 2013, 08:26 PM
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Yea I was relieved when she called about the blood tests. I'm sure those tests will tell me all I need to know with no doubt.

But so far I've taken 2 tests. Dollar store test and an e.p.t.. Both tests are faint positives. The e.p.t show up right on time and stood faint. I had taken an ept at 10dpo (or so I thought) and it was straight negative. So maybe this is a good sign.

I just want to say I'm so sorry for letting my emotions get to me, and coming straight on here and being a whiny pest.. But I really appreciate you ladies and would be lost without you. thank you
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September 12th, 2013, 08:41 PM
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Oh my how stressful! I am so sorry. And don't apologize. You are not a whiny pest! This would make anyone emotional and freak out. My fingers are crossed!
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September 12th, 2013, 08:44 PM
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I would freak out too - don't worry
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September 13th, 2013, 06:34 AM
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You're in my thoughts and everything's crossed for you!
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September 13th, 2013, 07:31 AM
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You are totally not a whiny pest. I would be FREAKING out after that appointment. I will be thinking about you and awaiting those blood tests very impatiently.
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September 13th, 2013, 07:34 AM
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Thinking of you sweetie. Hoping you get a BFP!!
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September 13th, 2013, 10:10 AM
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I will post pics of yesterday's tests when I get home from work.

i know every dr is different. But is there a possibility that my dr will call me today with results from yesterday's blood test? Or will I have to wait until after the second blood test. I just want to know if I'm pregnant or not.
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September 16th, 2013, 09:24 AM
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Any updates?? Just checking in on you!!!

Depends on where I get them done. At a Labcorp I get the results in 3 days at my docs office anywhere from that afternoon to the next morning.
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September 16th, 2013, 09:26 AM
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My fingers are still crossed!
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