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September 17th, 2013, 09:11 AM
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Sitting in the loo pushing because I want it to happen sooner than later and when I wiped there was a big sticky blood clot..

Is this the start of my m/c?
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September 17th, 2013, 09:15 AM
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I'm not sure, but I would call your doctor as soon as you are able to.
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September 17th, 2013, 10:30 AM
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there is no way to tell. sometimes women who have SCH's pass clots through their pregnancy.

But.. my lass AF, the post M/C was full of these thick sticky weird clots... haven't seen those since my loss in 05...
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September 17th, 2013, 11:05 AM
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I'm just a little confused because my 2 miscarriages 8yrs ago I remember immediate severed bleeding. After my clot, I thought I would start my heavy flow, but no. It's still bright red but only when I wipe. And little clots that fall in the toilet after pushing for a while. I am having lower stomach cramps. But I've had worse, so I won't call them severe. More of a discomfort. I took Wednsday Thursday off work but have to go back Friday and Saturday.. I hope it all comes out and is a little lighter by Friday.
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September 17th, 2013, 12:01 PM
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The drs office just called me and my numbers had dropped from 24 to 10.
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September 17th, 2013, 12:06 PM
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I'm so so very sorry
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September 17th, 2013, 12:07 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Did the doctor offer any guidance on what comes next? I have only had D&Cs so I am not sure. I hope you heal quickly and I will be keeping you in my thoughts. You may find it helpful to join us on the TTCAL (after loss) board. There are amazing and supportive ladies on there. I am very sorry.
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September 17th, 2013, 12:19 PM
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Thanks Elle. I will definitely be lurking there.
Of course I have gotten nothing from my drs office. Well so far, nothing but a note I asked for to give to my work.
When I do start my ttc journey again, I definitely will not be going back to that drs office.
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September 17th, 2013, 12:37 PM
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I'm so sorry hun.
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September 17th, 2013, 01:16 PM
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So so sorry
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September 17th, 2013, 01:46 PM
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September 17th, 2013, 03:13 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss and the stress that you are going through <3
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September 17th, 2013, 03:38 PM
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Sorry With my loss at 6 weeks, my bleeding was pretty heavy for a few days, then a few more days that were like a normal period. I hope it goes quickly for you.
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September 17th, 2013, 03:41 PM
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*hugs*

when you try again is up to you.

My Doc from back home says anything that happens on its own before 6w you can try again right away. Anything non surgical before 7 weeks she says you can try after your levels reach 0 (yours will likely be 0 in a day or two). Anything after 7 or requires surgery to wait until you have 1 post surgery AF.

I've only had chemicals with DH.. so we've tried right away except the one this summer... I just wasn't ready.
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175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
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D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
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September 17th, 2013, 03:53 PM
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September 17th, 2013, 04:14 PM
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Thanks ladies..
@jennylee.. So for I've passed one big clot and a few tiny ones. Other than that nothing is actually coming out, only when I wipe. Just went to the loo and it has gotten way lighter. I'm hoping I expel it all naturally and before Friday. My other m/c's were nothing like this..

@Ashley.. I'm not sure when I will be trying again. I really don't want to rush it because the hurt it becoming too much to deal with. But then I also don't want to wait too long. I would like to have a June/July baby because there are Wayy too many August bdays in my family already. I want something before September because he could start school early and other little things like that.. (I know I sound crazy! Lol) but this would mean I would have to try again sooner than later. I just don't know right now. I'm sure by next month when and if everything regulates by then, I will know what I want to do.

Oh and the thing about starting in January is, an October baby. And the end of the year is always a bad time for me. And I don't want to wait more than 6 month..
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September 17th, 2013, 04:56 PM
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lol we wanted a fall/winter baby so that way they wouldn't have to start school early.... especially if it is a boy. Too many kids aren't ready at 4 and we don't want them to have to repeat Kinder like Reme.

Unless it's necessary for me to go to work, or I'm ready to pull my hair out.. we're redshirting (and since it's not likely our kids will play any sports, it's not for that advantage).
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Adenomyosis and Polyps.
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
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September 17th, 2013, 05:55 PM
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Yay.. Lol. I'm not the only one planning 5yrs after my non born baby is born. Lol
But what you say makes sense.. Cause chances are with my first I won't be ready to let him go. Lol.. But then I do want him to be advanced. So again I don't know. Maybe I will just let it happen on its own. No planning..
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September 17th, 2013, 06:22 PM
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So sorry for your loss
We are all hear if you need to talk
I went through a mc in may for pm me if you need someone to vent to

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September 17th, 2013, 06:39 PM
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Thanks ^^
So far I am ok. Just occasional crying. But surprisingly it's not as bad as before. Probably because the m/c hasn't been that bad. Hopefully I got it all out and will be ok to get back to work on Friday.
But I will pm you if I need to. Thanks
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