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September 18th, 2013, 05:52 AM
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Hi ladies so I'm either 11 or 12 DPO today and so this morning I took a test with an FRER and I SWEAR I saw a faint line show up almost immediately along with the reference but it was clear. I could barely see it but it was there but after like 3 or 4 mins it seemed to have gone away. Would this be an evap line? I took a regular EPT and Clear Blue Digital both were negative. I'm just getting so frustrated. I'm supposed to start AF either Fri or Sat. but don't have the normal cramping I usually have a few days before I just feel a touch bloated. This is just making me so depressed. I have read not everyone gets a BFN until the day of or after but still
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September 18th, 2013, 06:05 AM
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I meant BFP... oh and I have felt bloated since 4 DPO which is not normal at all with some cramping, but cramps stopped like 4 days ago.
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September 18th, 2013, 06:07 AM
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hmmmm....sounds promising...but not sure what happened with the disappearing line...
I would definitely keep testing...especially is you have any cheapies.
fingers crossed!
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September 18th, 2013, 08:01 AM
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I have gotten a BFN at 11 DPO with FMU and then a BFP later in the afternoon. It could still be too early yet try not to get too frustrated. If you aren't temping then you also could be less DPO then you think. I have never had a disappearing line on FRER those are usually very reliable tests. I will keep my Fx for you!
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September 18th, 2013, 08:14 AM
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I agree with Ari. It could be too soon to test. These tests are so sensitive and from the research I've been doing, you really shouldn't test until the day AFTER your missed period. I know it's agonizing to wait but if I were you I would test on Sunday morning if you believe your period is due Friday or Saturday. Believe me, I know how hard it is to wait. I have to force myself to wait until Friday morning but the longer you wait the better the results will be.

I'm in the same boat as you, I have to hide my tests so I don't get tempted.
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September 18th, 2013, 11:23 AM
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those tests often do show a line after dipping.

This is my rule. If it shows a bold pink, it's not going away and it is a bfp. If I have to tip and til and go blind to see it, wait until 5-8 minutes have passed and check again.

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September 18th, 2013, 03:15 PM
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well I tested again with a cheapie dollar store one just now when I got home b/c that line drove me nuts and I saw the same thing but it didn't disappear.... so I'm gonna post a pic here when I figure out how to post one lol

ok so I'm usually computer savvy but how do I post a pic on here? I thought I read somewhere I had to use photobucket or something?
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September 18th, 2013, 03:34 PM
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September 18th, 2013, 04:48 PM
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yup, upload it to photobucket and then paste the image code.
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September 18th, 2013, 05:08 PM
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I copied the image location is that wrong? Ill have to do it when I get home :/
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September 18th, 2013, 05:18 PM
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the location is fine. would just mean we have to click rather than it showing up. Which in the big picture, is not a big deal
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September 18th, 2013, 07:15 PM
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ok can you guys see the pics I uploaded?

am I crazy??? I swear there is a faint faint line... showed up right away and is still there
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September 19th, 2013, 12:56 PM
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It looks like an Evap sweetie, sorry
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September 19th, 2013, 02:35 PM
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I started AF so I'm out this cycle
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