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Hi everybody...For thos of you who read my post about DH freaking me out by changing his mind:
Last night we had the most wonderful talk! WE both put EVERYTHING on the table, and turns out I kinda misunderstood him. He basically wants to wait for about six months, so that we can prepare a little more, and have everything ready so that it will be easier on me.However, he doesn't want me to go back on B/C , we are just going to avoid O days for awhile, but if I get pg, he'll still be happy about it!!! I am so relieved, because I thought he meant that he wanted to wait years. WHat started the convo was that he told me his best friend and his wife were TTC, and I got sooo jealous and mad...I felt so silly and everything just came pouring out! Not thath I am not happy for her, I really really am, it's just that she wants to have the baby to HELP their marriage, and I think that's just going to put more of a strain on them....but who knows. Anyway, that's the update. I'll still be hanging out here if that's okay with everyone...!
I am glad you got everything worked out. I know how hard it is when DH is reluctant - we had to have the talk a couple of times. But for me it is a time factor (I am 37), so it was a little tough to convience him at first we need to start trying now. 6 months isn't too bad and it is good you are not going back on b/c and your DH supports that - sounds like he is more ready than you thought. Good luck and I am sending you some baby dust so you can start to stockpile it now. LOL. Good luck!