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My dh and I have been trying for a couple of months now and ever since then my life has been crazy. I thought I was pg after the first month. Well my head told me I was. Unfortunatly af showed up. But it was not normal. It was very light and short. So I thought there might still be a chance. Well dh and I continued to try. Then af showed up again but heavy and short. Then tried again. I started feeling nausea, small cramps, headaches, acne more than usual near af time, tired with times of extra crazy energy sperts, I have gained five pounds in a month which is unuausl for me because I am thin and usually can eat anything and it not show anywhere. I have also been really cranky sometimes and really affectionate other times. Which is not me. I am quiet all the time. I feel like I am someone else. AF is schelduled to arrive this 10/14 and I am nervous. I want to be pg soo bad. By the way did I mention I have taken a dozen hpt and all neg. Am I crazy or pg? Please help. I need advice. I have been reading a lot of the boards. One said that she was pg for 4 months before she found out. Can that really happen?
First of all Welcome to Just Mommies and to TTC #1. I might would suggest that you start charting your temps on Fertility Friend or something like it. It will give you a good idea of your cycles, when you ovulated, if AF is coming, or even if you're pregnant. Good Luck
Sorry you're feeling crazy but unfortunately I'm afraid that is a side effect of TTCing!
It is amazing what you're mind can do to your body.
Good Luck and I hope you'll start charting, it really helps.
We all get crazy now and then, it's one of the TTC symptoms. LOL. According to your post you'll get AF tomorrow? If so, I would say test on Sunday, and keep us updated. But yeah, like Daisy said, start charting on Fertility Friend, it helps a lot. Good luck, hope you get your BFP.
To answer your question, yes sometimes a woman can be pregnant and get negative HPTs and don't find out they are until they are a few months along, BUT and it is a big BUT this is extremely rare - it deals with how the body metabolizes the pregnancy hormone.
Don't worry about feeling crazy - we all do. It is what TTCing does to us. I hope AF stays away and you get your BFP soon.
Should she show up though, I would suggest charting as well - it can really help you know what is going on (some think it adds stress, but it I find it less stressful to know what is going on personally). You'll learn so much about your cycle.
I know what you are feeling. we all feel that way sometimes. You just have to keep going and see what comes. And dont stress! Easier said than done i know, but trust me... you will be so much happier in the time until you get your bfp! and i really hope that time is super short! Lots of luck and.... *babydust*