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Ok. So i'm pretty new to JM but me and DH have been TTC for a while now, and today I am 4 days away from testing and I found out that 2 girls who I work beside are pregnant and one of them doesn't even want to have the baby AND is moving across the country AND leaving her boyfriend. I am happy for these girls and I am trying to be supportive, however, I had an early miscariage 2 months ago and I am finding being around these people very difficult. I don't want to be that bitter person but I am finding myself leaning in that direction. HELP!!! Any suggestions on how to stay positive and upbeat when these situations arise???
I'm sorry that you're having a rough time right now. I don't think that there's a real fool-proof way to stay upbeat when TTC, but I try to keep myself really busy. THat seems to work for me!
I hope you enjoy the boards as there is a lot of wonderful girls here with a lot of support and knowledge!
HI and Welcome! I am pretty new here as well, and I love it! These ladies are so supportive!
Anyway- I know how you feel! Its hard to watch others get preggers when we are trying- especially when it was an accident!!! UGH! I have three friends who ALL got preggers within 3 months of trying..here I am in the 6th month with about 6 days to test feeling a little bummed as I have had spotting since 5DPO! Its hard...
BUT- I just keep telling myself that what is meant to be will be. I come here for support and to support others and that helps too. I am sure your recent miscarriage does not help (I am sorry for your loss!). My good friend got preggers the 2nd cycle after her MC- so try to stay positive!! We will all support you!
Good luck- and babydust to you!! What day are you testing? I am 9DPO and trying to hold out till AF is due on the 19th....
Welcome Lynn I'm fairly new here too! I love these girls, they are soo knowledgeable and helpful!! they are very amazing!! I'm sorry for your loss, try and stay positive and just remember we are here for you! If you ever need to vent feel free we will try and help you out or just listen!! sending some your way!!
__________________ Thank you for my siggy vicki....
I KNOW! Everyone around me seems to be pregnant! My best friend is pregnant right now and all we do is shop for the baby and talk about the baby and sometimes I leave to go home and i feel EXHAUSTED from trying to be perky and not be a complete jerk! I love her and sometimes I really feel awful about how jealous I am when I hear her talk about it. Then today with the 2 girls at my work I was just like OMG!!!
I know things will get better, I'm so glad I joined JM!!!