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  #21  
April 15th, 2012, 05:50 AM
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I just want to add in that you shouldn't feel bad about any of this. I don't know if it has to do with the reason you split, but he left his children during a very difficult time of their lives. Instead of running back to the states, he should've had the decency to show his kids that he will always be there for them, whether or not you two are together!
I do feel bad though, I don't know why.

He did leave his kids, it has been..I'm not exactly sure but maybe six weeks since he left? There isn't a whole lot of contact (I have skype) and I'm extremely angry at him for abandoning his children. I know alot of people on here know the back story with my children so him leaving makes it even worse.

HE SHOULD HAVE HAD THE BLOODY DECENCY, I would never willingly leave my kids and he just up and left. I am furious at him for it. My 3 year old daughter told me ,'Mummy you will have to find me a new Daddy because my Daddy has no time for me'. Disgusting.

And working two jobs and giving me no money when I can barely support ourselves. I hate his guts.

Now I'm mad so I'll just call lol.

Thanks for the all the advice girls.
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April 15th, 2012, 10:16 AM
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Glad we got you mad enough to call.
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April 15th, 2012, 05:45 PM
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That's the spirit!
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April 15th, 2012, 07:09 PM
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Im calling now.
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April 15th, 2012, 07:25 PM
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Thanks for kicking my arse and making me do it.

All set up. It's 'public' now and they're attempting to contact him.

If he refuses contact,then the American child support agency takes over for the Australian one. Since we don't know what he is making etc he is ordered to pay me $411 a month and he owes me three months.

I feel so much better now.
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April 18th, 2012, 01:16 PM
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Oh wow, that sounds like a huge mess! I hope you're able to get it sorted and they kick his butt into gear and get you the money your children deserve!
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April 19th, 2012, 02:02 AM
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Oh wow, that sounds like a huge mess! I hope you're able to get it sorted and they kick his butt into gear and get you the money your children deserve!
Thanks

It looks like it started something. He is now actively looking for work that isn't under the table.
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April 22nd, 2012, 07:41 AM
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Sounds like you still have feelings for him which isn't going to get you anywhere. I'm glad you made a call to get it through the courts. Like one of the ladies said if he doesn't pay it can take a LONG time for it to go as far as contempt. Even then he only has to pay whatever percentage is agreed upon in your state/country or a "reasonable amount". Either way it would be something. Good luck.
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