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April 7th, 2008, 12:10 PM
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I thought I ovulated on the 28th since I had a slight temp drop, but then I wasn't sure and convinced myself I hadn't Od.

FF decided to give me cross hairs on the 28th when I finally entered my temps there. I convinced myself FF was a big fat liar.

I have no sign of AF showing even though if she were going to and I Od on the 28th, I'd usually have her today 10DPO.

Since I haven't had enough torture with a loss this past cycle, I decided to go look at FF's charts to make myself feel better. No such luck! I looked up charts that are 1 cycle post miscarriage, with a fallback rise and no 100% sign of EWCM. I found one that looks almost exactly like mine and the person was prego.

Why do I do this to myself? I was convinced I hadn't Od. Now I have that little annoying voice in the back of my mind telling me I should test. test test test I don't wanna test and get a bfp. I'm holding out...or at least for a few days. Then maybe I'll go buy a cheap test. I don't have any in the house.
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April 7th, 2008, 12:17 PM
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I'm sorry Celry that everything is so crazy right now. I say if af doesn't show by tomorrow, go test. I know you don't want to be disappointed, but maybe you'll be surprised!!! G/l KUP
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April 7th, 2008, 12:43 PM
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I'll KYP
In the meantime I'll continue to drive myself crazy with whatifs and constant back and forth swings in what I think is going on.
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April 7th, 2008, 01:18 PM
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I'm sorry that your cycle is driving you crazy. I hope you can find out an answer soon! Good Luck!
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April 7th, 2008, 01:48 PM
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LOL I do the same thing! I'm gonna be the voice of reason... don't do it you'll only torture yourself more!
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April 7th, 2008, 02:48 PM
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Toni, i like your advise. I'm going to wait it out a while and see what my temps do. I'm pretty sure I'm reading more into it than there is just because I want to be pregnant again.
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April 7th, 2008, 02:58 PM
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Go and get a test tomorrow!!! I wanna see....usually when your impatient you know that your pregnant!!!

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April 7th, 2008, 06:04 PM
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I went to run some errands tonight. I bought 2 dollar store tests while I was out. They're just here to make me feel better so I know I have the option I won't be testing tomorrow. I'm going to give myself a few more temping days before I decide what to do.
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April 7th, 2008, 06:10 PM
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Good for you. No testing until you are sure AF is actually late. Good Luck when you do test though.
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April 7th, 2008, 06:28 PM
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Sorry you're going crazy. I know what that's like. Good luck! Hope you get some good news
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April 8th, 2008, 04:17 PM
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Still haven't tested I'm almost 100% sure FF is a big fat liar and I'm going to O soon. I have a bunch of unmistakable EWCM today at work Too bad I was at the office instead of my home office. Otherwise I would have made DH come home at lunch

My body has faked me out twice this cycle, so I hope I do O now and that FF was wrong. If I am Oing now, I should know before I leave for Europe if I can partake in their wonderful beer or not.
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Dec 26 '08, BFP after 21 months thanks to acupuncture
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Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday
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April 8th, 2008, 04:38 PM
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I hope you are getting busy!
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April 8th, 2008, 05:13 PM
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I hope you are getting busy! [/b]
Not yet, but we will.


I just realized that if I do O now, I'll be at my doctors office a week from today and should be able to get blood drawn to check my hormone levels.
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Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday
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April 8th, 2008, 06:31 PM
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Ugh, I hate all the second guessing and wondering what is going on!

But if you've got EWCM, then definitely start getting busy!
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April 8th, 2008, 09:55 PM
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Have you tried OPK's?
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April 9th, 2008, 03:51 AM
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Have you tried OPK's?[/b]
No, I haven't. I maybe should. I just think my hormone levels are low enough they wouldn't register. My reasoning is that I have a few friends with the same body type, similar diet, health, exercise habits and none of them use OPKs because they don't work for them. I know that doesn't mean they wouldn't work for me. Maybe next cycle I'll give them a whirl if I have to.

I had the one big patch of EWCM and then no temp jump of dip this morning. Grrrr. I have a cold, but can't imagine that would produce EWCM since that's driven by hormones. I'm not a doctor though, so what do I know I think I need to stop trying to figure out what my body is doing this cycle. Every day I seem to have a new theory.
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Dec 26 '08, BFP after 21 months thanks to acupuncture
Jan 14 '09, first u/s one strong heart beat
Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday
365 Days in a Roe


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April 9th, 2008, 12:12 PM
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2 day now of EWCM with no temp spike yet. My body is rockin' this cycle Hopefully these two days of EWCM are going to lead DH's soldiers to the eggie
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Dec 26 '08, BFP after 21 months thanks to acupuncture
Jan 14 '09, first u/s one strong heart beat
Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday
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April 9th, 2008, 05:08 PM
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I normally get 3-5 days of fertile CM before my temp spike. Keep BDing until it comes.
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April 9th, 2008, 05:14 PM
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Oh! Keep trying and BD every day til you dry up!!! Man that must be confusing!
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