[grace4me]

We've been at this for 8 months. I use the CBFM and normally tell DH everything. When I am low, high or peak. I wonder if this is putting too much pressure on him to "perform" and making our BD too mechanical. I seriously am wondering if I should just not make a big deal out of POAS this month and just see what happens. What do you guys think?

Kris

p.s. I do temp so...he'll know that I'm doing that

[Celry]

I think it depends on your DH. I temp, and check CP and CM. My DH likes to know when I'm Oing. Some guys don't though. I think you should ask him and see what he wants.

[grace4me]

He is the one always asking me so...I think he likes to know but, my point is I think it's pressuring him too much. Last cycle, he seemed way too stressed out to me. It could have been other factors too though. Hmm..knowing him, I'll just keep telling him because he'll keep asking.

[~Andrea~]

Earlier DH didn't want to know. But since I have been on Clomid, he knows this is a big deal, and he asks me every day. He even has a countdown on our calender for when I take the Clomid, and has CD 10 -CD21 highlighted. LOL. He is too funny. But, eveyone guy is different. Some want to know, and some don't.

[ShannonMVT]

I assumed mine wouldn't want to know b/c of what others had told me. However he told me he would rather know. If he knows I'm fertile he's willing to BD even if he's tired whereas not so much if I am not fertile.

[Brenda04]

I assumed mine wouldn't want to know b/c of what others had told me. However he told me he would rather know. If he knows I'm fertile he's willing to BD even if he's tired whereas not so much if I am not fertile.[/b]

mine will rather know it motivates him more, sometimes it's impossible not to be tired or not be in the mood, but when he knows I'm oing he is willing to do it anyway.