We TTC for about two years before seeking assistance. I went through seemingly every test possible. It sucked. Finally it came time to be my husband's turn to be tested. Turns out he had a low sperm count. He was diagnosed on his first visit to the urologist with variocele (basically varicose veins in the testicles) and surgery was suggested. Even though the doctor gave us a very high success rate, hubby was a little anxious about surgery "down there!" So we continued to try naturally and not focus so hard on TTC. After almost another 2 years passed by, DH finally gave in and scheduled the surgery. It took less than an hour and he only took one day off of work.
We conceived 3 months later and are expecting our first... So I can definitley relate to the impatient feelings that all of you are having!!! I was not a happy girl! My advice is to not wait as long as we did and to be aggresive about your fertility!
iamkc - my advice is to schedule another appointment with your doctor and sit her down and tell her concerns and express your thoughts--that she's not taking you seriously and that if she's out of ideas, you're going to someone else. And then go! And by all means, if you've already gave her enough chances, RUN to another doctor! Good luck!