[wishingxxx]

So I Od yesterday.
Looked forward to catching the egg at night.
During the day DF had been to have a tooth out,so he was tired but said it was fine.
When it came to BDing he said he couldnt do it and was too tired.I tried persuading him otherwise,but he resisted so i just left it.
I didnt want to be seen as pushy,its stressfull enough for us that neither of us need to feel pressurised.
But FFS.......................seriously,i was so upset....................Im still raging.
I never ask him for anything,EVER........................just this..............just this one thing....................I never tell him my moans when it comes to taking care of his mum,i never moan when im looking after him,cooking and cleaning and feeding him,doing his washing the list goes on..........................I just want this one thing and today,well i feel like im never going to get it.
I cant look at him today without feeling so angry,so i doubt I'll be doing a rescuing BD tonight.
I guess im out for this month.....................this cycle that i was so positive about has just been pissed on.
Well thats my vent , thanks for reading it i just needed to get it out.

[Emm17]

IM sorry you feel so frustrated.
I know how that feels, feeling like you missed out on your chance.
I dont understand how our SO can just NOT try. When it is on our minds, from the moment we decide to try to the moment we give birth.

[xanada101]

OMG my DH and I had a fight about this a couple months ago! Same thing, he promised me and then he was too tired when it came down to it. He acted all pissy one night and I haven't let him forget it since LOL. I even brought it up last night and he said He'll NEVER do that again! LOL

I'm sorry I can laugh about it now, but at the time I was sooo pissed off and hurt. I didn't want to rescue BD either.... I wanted to hold out the rest of the month. If he wasn't going to give me what I wanted... ONE night.... then he wasn't gonna get any the rest of the month. Somehow we worked it out though. I don't even remember how. I think he got into the shower with all his clothes on to make me laugh. Anyways, I hope that you can make him understand how you are feeling. I think it's important that he knows how disappointed you are. Have you been BDing up until last night?

[wishingxxx]

Thanks for replies,iam still not talking to him,i know its childish but jeeeeeeeeez lol.
We had been BDing up until last night,and yea i suppose there is a slight chance.....................this sounds horrible but the way im thinking just now.................we cant get it right when the green light is on so i just know weve not hit the mark this time.
Always next month i suppose but by that time i will have him begging for it lol.

[*becky*]

If you BD'd leading up to O there is still a good chance!!!

I'm sorry your BF is being a doo-doo head.

Seriously - all he needed to do was lay there...you could have handled the rest. I know its not as fun, but if he was tired a quicky would have been fine.

I hope you caught the eggie this month and don't have to worry about the next cycle.

[snsgirl336]

I can feel your pain! There have been a few times where my DH just craps out when it comes time to BD. I get so angry with him. He knows that there is a limited window of opportunity to make this baby that we both want so badly, but he just can man-up to stay awake and BD.

I understand that he works and has a lot going on, and while I'm a SAHW, I do a lot around the house and I help take care of my Mom who pulled a ligament in her hip. I'm tired too sometimes, but he loves to play the "poor me" card. MEN- They need to suck it up and get the job done! I think you have every right to be angry!!!!

[wishingxxx]

Thanks ladies xxxxxxx

[Chatterbox]

If you BD'd leading up to O there is still a good chance!!!

Seriously - all he needed to do was lay there...you could have handled the rest. I know its not as fun, but if he was tired a quicky would have been fine.

I hope you caught the eggie this month and don't have to worry about the next cycle.[/b]

Ditto!! Good luck hun.

[babyblue]

Ditto!! Good luck hun.
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I agree! You still have a great chance!!

BTW, my DH has pulled the same crap before. We had a long talk and I was SO mad at him! Now, he makes sure no matter how tired he is- he always finds time to squeeze in a BD when I need him to. I laugh about him "taking one for the team", but once you get over being so angry, you need to set down with him and tell him what you need from him and how important it is. I'm hoping you won't need to though and that those spermies were waiting and caught that eggie!