[Hopingfor1soon]

Ok, so I have a couple updates.... first...I just want to let everyone know that I will be MIA the next two weekends. I have state softball this weekend and then my husband has state softball next weekend. So we will be busy traveling and playing softball!! FUN FUN!! Wish us luck! haha

Ok, and can anyone tell me where the hell AF is? haha I still have not seen her and its driving me crazy! I just want her to come so I can start this month with an HSG and all and then move on to injectables and IUI in September!! Grr....

Oh yeah, and third...I finally told my mother that we are TTC. OMG she about had a fit. She thinks we are way too young and blah blah blah....I was like gee thanks for all the support. Especially after I had just told her that we have basically no chance of concieving on our own without medical assistance. Sometimes she can just be so rude and down right mean. Yes and she said the famous line..."Just relax and it will happen". She also through a fit about us getting MA because she thinks we are going to end up with 6 at once....yeah right....like that will happen...Granted I dont know what I expected. She also told me when I got engaged that I better wait a good 3 or 4 years to get married because there was no way in hell we were ready to get married. Keep in mind I was 19 almost 20 when we got engaged and we were 21 when we got married. Well my mom was married at 18! Come on now...seriously....Grr...

Thanks for listening to me vent girls! haha It was very much needed....

[SavaAngel]

I am so sorry. I had a similar experience, but with my IL's. DH and I were engaged when I was still in college (I was 20) and married when I was 22. Then they all said we should wait at least 3 years before kids (SIL waited almost 5 years). I went off the pill a couple months after our 1st anniversary cause I wanted to see if I would have the same problems previously (the reason I was put on the pill) and if I did then I could get it taken care of and maybe find some answers. We were NTNP and walla - AJ. My IL's we soooooooooooo not approving when we told them, but you wouldn't believe it now. I am sure it will be the same way with your mothers grandchild. Now I am in another similar boat cause they think (including SIL) we should wait till AJ is 3 to start TTC, needless to say they don't know we are TTC now.

ETA: Have fun during your softball games. Hope you get AF soon. Have you taken a HPT lately? I had a friend in my PR say she didn't get a BFP till 18 dpo. Will your doctor give you something to jump start her? Good Luck with everything Alicia.

[snsgirl336]

I posted on ttc#1, but I wanted to send you extra about your mom.... I'm sure when you do get pregnant, she'll be very excited to be a Grandma!!!

Good luck with Softball!!!! What positions do you and your DH play?

[Hopingfor1soon]

Thanks girls!!

Good luck with Softball!!!! What positions do you and your DH play?[/b]

I actually play SS, and LCF. DH plays LF, RF, SS and 2nd....we are both seem to move around here and there when our teams need to make adjustments....but yeah I am primarily SS and DH is primarily LF.

[Melanie0507]

Hope you have fun with softball this weekend and next!!

I am sorry about your mom not being too supportive I am sure she will be excited when the time comes, though!!

KUP on your AF watch...I was wondering the same thing as Christina--have you taken a hpt lately??

[*becky*]

Good luck in the tournaments!! I played SS too!!

I'm sorry your mom isn't being supportive. She's probably just worried about you and doesn't know how to express it. I would keep talking to her about it and hopefully she'll be more receptive.

I'm glad made you feel a little better! (((hugs)))