Hey Di, I've just recently moved over here too...not really where I expected to be, but it is what it is I guess. Maybe we're supposed to be learning some profound lesson from all of this and we'll be better people because of it? Whatever, lesson shmesson, we want our d@mn babies!
I too hope that you get your BFP and don't need to worry about having DH tested. Congrats on your tests coming back good! Maybe you fall under the category of "the average healthy couple can take up to a year to get pregnant in normal circumstances". Good luck!