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August 23rd, 2008, 05:06 AM
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Well girls, I must say this month was my biggest disappointment. My chart was looking great, then my temp dropped and AF showed Thursday. I had major cramps, was so tired (took a nap after work, which is so not like me). I think part of the exhaustion was from having my hopes tore right out of me. Anyway, I called the doctor's office Friday morning when they opened. I had to get in and get checked so I could get my next script for clomid. I wanted to go in Friday because Monday is our first teacher in-service day and I knew they wouldn't let me off. The doctor's office is about 40 minutes away, and their latest appointment is 3:20PM! So the secretary answered the phone and wanted to schedule me for Monday, and I explained why it would be better today. She put me on hold,came back to the phone and told me I'd have to see a PA. I got off the phone with her and talked to DH. This would be the 3rd different person I have seen. The first two months I saw my dr. The 3rd month I saw a lady doctor in his practice, and now they want me to see the PA. I called them back and told them to cancel my appointment, I wanted to know if I could take a break from clomid. She put me on hold again, came back and told me that all the doctors work together and it's not a big deal to see someone else in the practice. Well, maybe not to them, but it is to me. I have questions about my HSG from April. (Sidenote: the other doctor I saw on month 3 told me that I had a bicorneated uterus and would automatically be considered a high risk pregnancy. My doctor had told me everythng was fine with that test! I have questions!!!). So, anyways, I am taking the month off of clomid. I was an emotional basketcase yesterday. But, with school starting next week, I think it's for the best. I can get pretty moody, and want to start my school year off right. So in the end,I'm ok with my decision, just feel like I was forced into the decision because the dr. office wasn't to accomodating or compassionate at that.

Thanks for listening.
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August 23rd, 2008, 05:29 AM
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Oh I'm so sorry you are having such a rough time. This is definitely the place to vent. That realy sucks that the dr office was not sympathetic to your needs. I mean dont' they deal with women TTC all the time. You would think they would be more considerate of your feelings and needs?!?! Anyway, it can only get better right? KUP on the HSG results.
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August 23rd, 2008, 06:25 AM
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*hugs* I'm sorry you're taking a break. I hope it works out well for you though and I hope you get your questions answered.
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August 23rd, 2008, 06:39 AM
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I can understand your frustration.

I hope that the beginning of school goes well for you and that you can get in and get your questions answered soon!
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August 23rd, 2008, 10:43 AM
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Oh wow! That really stinks! I'm sorry you're not getting any good answers from your doctors. You'd think that they'd be among the most compassionate Drs out there dealing with women and ttc and stuff. Hopefully you'll be able to get some straight answers with everything when you do go to the Dr's. Hang in there! We're all here for you!!! Lots of
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August 23rd, 2008, 11:14 AM
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hang in there!!
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August 23rd, 2008, 11:41 AM
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wow, I'd find a new doctor. The only time I had to see a DR was when I came in for an emergency appt because I'd had complications from a test, and I understood that. My DRs office is very willing to work with my schedule, they understand. I hope you can find a better practice that will be in tune with your needs.
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